So I used to be immature and very reckless but I've matured and become a different person now. Now i have my own rules about what i do and ifollow it strictly. Example, I always follow traffic light rules even if there's no cars om the road at 3am. Another is I disapprove of underage stuff like drinking bellow 21, sex below 21, stuff like that. Anyways what I'm asking is if i judge others based on my rules is that fair or is that being a hypocrite? Like i stopped being friends with this girl whom i grew really close to because she's underage but goes out drinking with friends a lot.