Guys, why is it unfair to compare 2 guys? One being a boyfriend and the other a friend. Refer details?

Boyfriend and the friend who waited over 2 years for my answer to his marriage proposal, both are wonderful. The 2nd person used to talk to me even in the middle of a busy workday, used to hear me out patiently, treated me like a to-be wife. Whereas, boyfriend just says, "Sweetheart am busy, i will text when am done with work." The friend always went out of his way to make me feel special. Boyfriend has just taken me for granted. I can't help but compare both :'(
Guys, why is it unfair to compare 2 guys? One being a boyfriend and the other a friend. Refer details?
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