Not entirely sure but I know I tend to avoid people after really awkward incidents might be similar behavior going on
But he keeps coming back that's the thing that gets me
If you're just hooking up then you aren't supposed to contact each other afterwards at all hun
We've been talking non stop for months but he stops talking to me for days/weeks everytime we have sex
In fact at the start that's what I thought it was so I didn't talk to him until he messaged me and added me on every social media possible 😅
You're a booty call - someone they only use for sex, not conversation.
I just dont understand why he'd initiate a full on conversation with me for nearly 6 months and then ignore me the day after we meet up. He reached out to me and was talking to me 24/7 until we met up again
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Guys do that all the time, especially if they are not committed or not love you enough.
That's why sex is precious. And you're a slut for giving it cheaply.
Thanks for voicing your damaging opinion, I'm not a slur, far from it, me and this guy have been talking for months and it's all fine until we sleep together so thanks but you've done more damage than him
Well pardon my misleaded damaging opinion, but I would say, the body thing is some special, very rewarding for men. So when we get it, it's like getting the prize from the top shelf. We just get comfortable after that, we don't try as hard. Sorry for earlier, you just sounded cheap.
They might be tools who take advantage of you or they don't want to come across as needy or clingy.
Power dynamics, boys like that only start trying when you ignore them
Maybe you're a pain in ass? Bitchy or whining all the time?
No I never whine, only on websites like this to see if I'm the problem or he has a problem with me, we speak all the time until we have sex and then he'll ignore me for like a few days and then talk to me.
This is not a relationship. you're just a booty call.
Because you need to start treating them the same way, problem solved.
Because that's only what they wanted from you
They're recovering, you must be great in bed.
I'd like to believe that 😂
Well let me know if you want me to give you a full and honest evaluation ;)
You’re a piece of ass and that’s that.
Because you're picking the wrong guys honey.
They were only interested in you for the sex.
I just think it's weird because we talk all the time literally everyday until we have sex and then he'll ignore me.
Question, How long do you make them wait?
Well we started talking November last year and went on a date in December last year and we did it that night, then he ignored me for like a week afterwards and then started talking again like nothing happened then we went out again and same thing he ignored me for about another week and then messaged me again, then we talk for months while he's overseas and then he comes back and we meet up and he tells me all this shit like he loves me and likes being around me and then he ignores me again!
It sounds to me like he's using you for sex. Try next time that you go out not having sex and see if he is still interested.
I mean now that I've said it the way I just did it's a little obvious 🙄
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