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I don't give a f how much he makes. Why do I need to know the amount of money in his bank account? I don't see it as an issue. As long as he's contributing for expenses and I'm not "minding him" because of his lack of ambition, I'm fine. If I make more money than him and he contributes less or if he lost his job and is legitimately in a rut that's all fine too.
Kinda, yeah. I don't really care how much he earns outside of just knowing he can pay his share of our bills but the secrecy around it would bother me.
Same. Sums up my view perfectly
I don't really care much but I'd take it as mistrust.
A lot of people don’t feel happy sharing how much they have or how little they have. It’s a tough one, I like openness in people and it took a while for my partner and me to have a conversation about finances etc. We discussed it we had any debt etc sooner than how much we earn. I suppose just ask him why he is closed off about his finances.
If a guy refused to talk about money around me, I'd assume he is rich and doesn't want gold diggers. Poor people have difficulty pretending to be rich but rich people have no difficulty pretending to be poor.
Keep my finances separate, best way, but I have a very good idea of what he earns and does with it even though it is his concern not mine.
I grew up very poor so I finance my money very well. Keep my savings up and spend very minimal. So I want to know if he's the type of person to throw money around had not have any savings.
Why would he need to hide it from you? I would be worried
A lot of people consider that private information, so I don't think it's really a bad sign.
That's shady, too questionable. You guys are together, we is he hiding things?
It's ok as long as has not asking me to barrow money
Finances are a personal matter that don't need to be shared if one doesn't want to.
Not telling me your finances and being secretive about them are two different things in my book.
I don’t particularly care how much he makes, but the distrust and association that I am going to try and claim his money or whatever would bother me.
I would liek to know, but don't really mind tbh
We are open about that.
Its his privacy
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