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Interesting, because I remember some women on a different question or myTake ranting to me about how men take rejection easier, and it is a lot harder for women. Seriously, this is bullshit. Rejection hurts everyone. The reason women sometimes don't feel much is because many women are told they are special every day of the week, they get attention from guys most of the time, so their self-imagine is not tarnished much by a rejection. If/when women will be asking men out just as much, and getting rejected just as much, they'll be just as depressed about it.
Guys dislike being rejected more so than girls. But overall it does hurt and brings down his/her self-esteem depending on how the he/she can take it. Best solution is to get over it and keep looking around.
@Mayday40"Guys dislike being rejected more so than girls."Based on what? I don't remember reading anything about this.
Do we? Let me rephrase that for you: "Why some guys find it..." With that settled. Let me proceed: Rejection is not genre bias. One could think about it that way but what on it really depends is on how much do you care about THAT specific person rejecting you. The more you care the harder it is to accept or digest. Cheers.
While I agree to the later parts of your comments (which I thank you for), with "no offense meant", some facts remain & my question still remains.
I think they are designed to pursue and not give up if their first attempts at contact are rebuffed. Girls on the other hand are designed to avoid guys who don't show deep interest in them because if they date somebody not truly in love with them they might become a single mother left with no father to help raise the child.
How does this answer the question? Essentially you said that girls are more picky in choosing partners, and get rejected less.
If you reject a guy its taken as final if you don't want to date a guy now we see it as a waste of time you will never date period
Man are beautiful (well some, not all of them) in general. They do have feelings, they struggle just like any human beings. Man dont want to passed out as weak when confronted with rejections, but i know man who have cried and said please dont leave me... but i had too bc it was not going to work... and i told him that i rather remember him being nice until the end then being angry at each other and pissing each other off and having the worse ending of our frienship of breaking up. It was hard, but man do have feelings and emotions too and thats part of being a human not a sign of weakness. I think and my own opinion... 🙂
I think there can be a couple different reasons here that varies with maturity levels and manner of relationshipsAs the general mode of inter gender relations men are the pursuers the hunters and rejection by the quasi pray equals a dire insult to their perceived masculinity This thing you find more in younger/less mature menIn the older or more mature men they may not be so bothered by the rejection in the pursuit but will take rejection in the relationship very badly as they will invest themselves heavily in itThere is also something more akin to the former one perhaps in a way related to it but it is not the hunter prowess at stake but a very narcissistic arrogant sense of entitlement this type of person will often work how to achieve positions of wealth and influence and believe they others should acquiesce to their needs and will get angry when they don't
Because as guys, we are expected to be able to make relationships with girls happen, and we're judged harshly on our ability to do so. In contrast, girls are considered the choosers, and if a girl doesn't have a relationship, she's considered the victim of inept and clueless guys. That's why people will console a dateless girl, but those same people will mock a dateless guy as a loser.
There is a video of a guys asking out girls and girls asking out guysThe result.Girls would give the answer of "ew no" or "umm no?"guys would give the answer of "i'm sorry you're really pretty but im in a relationship" or something to that effect.To sum it up. Girls are pretty fuckin heartless to guys, and they don't really care about their feelings. You'd get salty too if the expectation to lead the way was placed on you, with this clearly obvious imbalance of humanity.
Cuz no one wants to feel rejected , it takes a lot for someone to get the confidence to ask someone put that they really like so when a guy really likes a girl and he gets rejected makes him feel like he isn't good enough
It might be a personal thing. I've been rejected a lot, I don't take it to heart but some people do, male or female.
Only the guys who genuinely liked the girl would be sad after rejection because they might have devoted all their time and energy for the one they really loved and still got rejected.All their work went in vain that's why it's hard for them.
Basically life for a man is just a big competition, with women as the goal. Almost everything you do is for that competition, your whole life, and when you get rejected it means that you still aren't good enough
I’ve been rejected and I was sad for weeks. Then he tried asking me out and I rejected HIM 😁 but rejection sucks really bad. Especially if you like that person a lot
because we want to be assured that we'll find someone, and sometimes we feel that we are running out of time,this is coming from a single 21 yr old male so
Not all of them. Players actually tend to think the rejection is part of some game
Meh , i don't careI didn't try much to begin with,
If my crush denied me, it would completely crush me and I would probably cry. It's all about if that guy truly loves the girl
Stupid and weak. No is a word, men will hear millions of times in their lives from women. If they become afraid of a word, and one that is used often, then their lives are going to be long and miserable. It's just a word, get over it and move on.
Incidentally this is true although you'll find mixed reactions in books, on the Internet, or your friends. On this app is questionable.
I have IBS so digesting anything is difficult for me.
Men tend to be more competitive and are raised to seek victory.
It only seems that way since guys are the ones being rejected most of the time. Girls don't ask guys out as much as guys ask girls out.
Cus they're the ones expected to make the first move and bear the brunt of rejections. You'd get salty if the same expectations were placed on you.
Guy have a very soft heart. So they can't accept rejection
Because it's embarrassing being rejected, and guys are usually the ones asking girls out.
Nah only our heart cracks 💔 and paining
I've always accepted/ digested being rejected.
Coz they have big egos
No one likes to be let down... Except me😀
Because it makes them feel less of a man
Eh, I think it goes both ways
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