I want to end things with my friends with benefits of 3 years. I've caught feelings and think its best to just end things now before things get worse. The problem I have is that i dont want him to think im starting trouble. I feel dumb randomly texting him that i want to talk to him about us. We haven't texted in over a week so it will be random. Should I wait till the next time he texts me asking me to hangout, to confront him? Or should i just message him and get it over with? Im also worried that Im gunna make too big of a deal about it and he doesn't even care that i want to end things. Im scared and upset and wish I never got into this situation with him. What should i do?