Can a guy be too insecure to go out with a girl?

I really like this guy and I know he likes me too. I can tell he wants to hang out with me (he’s hinted about it before) but when I try to make plans, he’s suddenly busy but not for his friends. I constantly hear him and his friends talking about me, our mutual tells me he asks about me a lot but he never wants to hang out. He talks to me when there’s other people around and sometimes when we are alone in a public setting but that’s it.

I noticed on his social media, his friends love to make fat jokes about him. He doesn’t seem to care all that much and he seems to ignore them and then he posted a sad meme. Our mutual friend said “that looks like you”. So I figure he’s got insecurity issues. I don’t think he’s fat at all but I think he thinks he is and so do his friends.

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Can a guy be too insecure to go out with a girl?
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