after we hooked up he said "so this is the third time we've done that..." like he wanted to ask some thing.
Then some time later, he got drunk and texted me saying "I'm over this. I like you" so I went to his place and we hooked up and during sex he asked "so are you my gf?" But I didn't respond (was distracted lol).
He never said anything about it after that but we kept hanging out.
Then he went away for a week or so and when he came back he said we should talk about what we're doing because he doesn't want anyone to get hurt. he's super busy and stressed and whatever so basically saying he doesn't have time for a relationship.