I have some :) dated two exes that mainly wanted sex. 1. They mainly see you at night 2. They fight spending much quality time with you outside of their house or yours 3. They sexually coerce you and try to block you to stop you from going somewhere so you don’t have to have sex 4. They don’t say I love you quite as often as other guys and the I love you sounds obligatory (follow your gut based on other signs) 5. The guy doesn’t clean after himself and doesn’t help you with something even if he says he would6. He doesn’t keep promises 7. He doesn’t go out to dinner or to a park or whatever with you and if you do go, he seems in a hurry to go back to one of your homes and doesn’t ever do PDA 8. He doesn’t care to get to know who you are 9. He won’t cuddle you just because but it leads to sex every single time 10. He gets very angry if you don’t want to have sex 11. He brags to his friends about you (primarily about the sex you have) 12. If your gut says so, it’s probably true. Ditch the dude. Sorry girly
I actually recommend not to send any nudes, because the only usage of nudes is sexual satisfaction on a very low standard and maybe some negative abusive thinking behind that as well.. and sex... if he is ready to mingle before you are even together caring for each other, meeting and doing completely non sexual stuff... the mating comes when you both feel ready and are willing to take the step up. If there is any pressure or only one of you wants it then he'll just use you and dump ya as soon as He finds something for long terms...
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Well, no, because "Using" Someone For Sex and "Players" DO NOT EXIST, People ↗
He said he love u within 3 days with lots of sweet things
The signs: 1) You are offering him nudes. 2) You are offering him sex. 3) He's not offering you much.
Do y'all actually do anything else together? Sex should be an addition to a great relationship, not the main focus.
I would say when he texts you being really nice randomly, then slips in the sexual flirting soon after and shortly after he's gotten what he wants he slowly dulls down the convo.
He asks for nudes and want sex very oftenly and doesn't want to do much otherwise
If he doesn't show much interest in other activities
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