I ended things with my guy of almost 3 years because I’m sick of his behavior. He’s 33 and I’m 23 and he’s an alcoholic and puts drinking before me always and flirts with other girls all the time. He’s just very immature for his age and I finally ended things with him. He asked how my parents would act around him now and if things would be weird (our families hangout all the time) and I told him “they’ve wanted me to end things with you for a very long time and they’ve been fine with you so don’t worry.” And afterwards I felt bad and thought maybe that was wrong for me to say. How would you feel if a girl you were with for so long said this to you? He responded with “well let’s not make people mad here” and I didn’t know what he meant by that and i just ignored it.