No I would not call it obsession. When you are on a diet and smell pizza when passing a pizza parlor don't you turn your head to see the pizza? Other females are beautiful and both men and women will use their eyes to see beauty. The key is to look but don't touch.
Maybe it's because I'm female but, I can refrain from staring at other males aside from my man. 🤷
Of course you can refrain from staring but that's really all about timing isn't it? Yes I will admit on the average a guy may stare which is track another women for more than 1 second while you ladies have perfected the quick glance, then away, then sometimes back method. Seen lots of videos where women are glancing and not staring but they still look.If you are in a healthy relationship you should feel free to talk about what you see and how it affects you. Remember he still goes home with you and if he goes home in a frisky mood all the better right?
Guess you're right there.
Lol, I was about to reply with my own answer to this post but you put it perfectly, so there's no point @ecfresh
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This is dependent on a lot of factors such as how he was raised, if he's in a relationship or not, if he CARES that he's in a relationship or not, etc.
So why would a guy do it when he's in a long term relationship?
Perhaps he wasn't raised to NOT do that. Perhaps he doesn't think you'll see him looking. Or, perhaps, it was simply something on someone's t-shirt.
His dad was over the road constantly, so he didn't have much of a role model there. But he knows I know he looks because he comments.
My guess then, is that you've probably never given him any indication it's not an acceptable behavior? You ever try saying something to him about it? What's your gut tell you?
Told him, he stopped for a while. 🤷
Tell him again and let him know you shouldn't have had to say it twice. It's a show of disrespect and dishonor for him to do that and he should know that.
I feel exactly like @ecfresh
Yea its, a man thing
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