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Every guy is different. There are guys that go silent because they don't want to appear weak. There are guys that go silent because its in their nature to do so. There are guys that go silent because they feel it will be burdensome to others to share those feelings. Although I am a girl, I can only hope to show you why I'm silent for you to learn something. My dad once told me: the emotions are in your eyes. This is the most true statement for me ever. I am not quick to mushy hugs, love letters, or vocally stating my feelings. My instinct is observation and reflection. I don't tend to speak or act before I think. I'm reserved. However, when the feelings are strong--feelings of intense fear, love, sadness, or happiness---though my body and voice have been taught to not react, my eyes are my revealing trait that have not been taught. My tears are silent. My smiles are silent. My looks of passion are silent. I can teach myself to not show my feelings through body language and words, but I can't teach myself to not reveal anything even through silence.
Yep! Agree 100%. I can read people through their eyes. I know a guy feels for me through eye contact, even when he goes silent or seems to be ignoring me. To others, he doesn’t care and I need to “get the message”. But when Insay I know he feels for me because I see it in his eyes, they think I am a lovesick puppy. The eyes don’t lie. The eyes show what that silence really means.
They truly don't. I can't hide anything in my eyes!
Chicago expressed it already.
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