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OK, here's what you do. Tell him that you know this girl that wanted to share a big secret with you. She said that she wanted to have sex with this guy in a "Friends with Benefits" type of arrangement and the friend told her yes and they then began to just have casual sex together on occasion. Then say..."What is your opinion about that type of arrangement?" Now wait and see what he says. If he says that is the most ridiculous thing he has ever heard of than you can go on to another subject, BUT, if he says that he doesn't see anything wrong with it, well, need I say more? ... lol. It's called the third party approach. I've used it many times quite successfully myself :) Good luck Ms Barlow!!
Thank you for the MHG Ms Barlow, you are so sweet!
@laurieluvsit: I hope your 3rd Party Approach works for guys like me to use on girls. I'll try that soon. Thanks.
@Jupiter1 It should Mr Jupiter. Good luck :)
I concur with the others. Gather up as many balls you can from around the house, stick em in the sack, and ask. Also, have a disaster prevention plan in place.
Ask him how he feels about friends with benefits. If he is not adverse to it, ask him if he would be interested in it with you.
Wear some very revealing lingerie and when you get him alone. Take it off and tell him to do as he wants.
Say " hey would you want to sleep with me a few times".
Ask him ( do you want to come to my apartment? ) ask this at night time
Yeah just Ask him. And be honest about it. There is very little chance he will say no to that
You act like it's a hard thing to do, you answered yourself with your own question
Just do it and dont be scared
Yell at him want some fucc
Just be honest with him
Just ask him
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