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A lot of men suffer from a malnourished vocabulary, so it's hard to say. They also struggle with how to be affectionate, because they don't often have role models for behaviors outside of what their male friends and family members do. If he just says the same thing again and again, but is otherwise unresponsive, or tries to avoid physical contact with you in other ways, that might be an indication that he's uncomfortable.
No we are very happy and physically intimate otherwise! Tysm for your help 💓💕💖
LOL @ "malnourished vocabulary". Excellent description. 👍
My boyfriend does similar, but if I kiss his neck he says "awww thanks honey". Same if I hug or cuddle him randomly out of nowhere. I think it just means they think it's cute and appreciate it. I wouldn't overthink it so much. If you really are concerned ask him, though. Nothing to be ashamed about.
I guess I figured he'd kiss my neck back? Or say I miss you back lol. I've brought it up but sometimes he still does say I miss you.
Hmm well have you asked him to kiss your neck in return when you brought it up? Sometimes he might not want to if he's just not wanting to be in a sexual mood. He may think it would go that direction depending on his actions. But if he does want it to go that way he needs to be a little more responsive. Are you wanting it to or just some of your affection preferences? You should definitely explain it to him what it means to you.
I want my affection to be reciprocated-so if I say miss you! I want him to miss me back-he shows that by saying I miss u back. It's like if u hug ur boyfriend and he didn't hug u back!!! That's sick
Yea I get what you mean. I don't think the kissing your neck back thing is a super common one, though. For us it just means I'm trying to get him in the mood because he really enjoys that and can tell I'm being playful. So if you've already told him that you want it to be like an identical reciprocation and he hasn't made an effort then I'm not sure...
I've only told him that with the I miss you thing-thnx! I think I'm overreacting lol thnx for helping me girl! ♥️❤️♥️
No problem. I hope that he is open to what you tell him. I figure he will be since he was with the other thing. c:
Awwww type of guy, hahah. He's just overreacting like mean girls do. He's Childish and immature. He should grow up.
? what's that for?
I don't understand how awww is overreacting or mean? Explain and I'll upvote you! ♥️❤️
I'm not asking for upvote. Just wanted to know what you meant.Awwww is not a real expression. When a person doesn't know how to react, (s) he uses it to spice it up. (s) he's pretending to be appreciative but they don't get involved.That expression itself is an overreaction.
So it's a bad sign?
Maybe yes. Because such people never gonna understand the intensity of an intimate relationship.They pretend care too much, which is fake. They don't care for real. Their reactions show that they care for us more than anybody. They are not givers. If you are okay with it and if you play the responsible role, then it's not a bad sign.
Tysm Sarva! 💕♥️
You're analyzing too much. Most guys don't know how to properly express themselves. He likes you and is in to you.
Ok thnx! I don't know how to be more secure in this relationship since he's not very affectionate. I'm very confident but being a great girl doesn't necessarily mean this guy will appreciate me-so I'm doubting a lot..Thanks NYCQs!
@arealgirl100 Help with what?
You answered! Yay! 💕How do I not ask these questions in this relationship? Like, is there a mantra or motto I should adopt gng forward to be more confident regarding his feelings for me?
@arealgirl100 Well just kind of laugh it off. When he goes "awww", say something like, "I 'awww' you also."
he can miss you and still kiss you everywhere
Oh-I meant that I'll kiss him like on his forehead and then he won't do that ever. Or last night I said "miss you!" And instead of saying "miss you too" he said "awww"So I know he misses me but why does he not reciprocate my sweet gestures. Is it bc he doesn't care for me?
He is into u
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