My ex and I broke up a few years ago. He was really manipulative and played a lot of "games". In the end he just kept lying until I honestly didn't believe a word he said any more. Anyway, long story short- we broke up. He decided that it was my fault he was unhappy and walked away. Okay... so, like I said, it's been YEARS. Since then, I've stopped using the IM service we usted to use. I've closed my old email account. I've moved to a new city. And I DON'T have facebook/myspace or anything like that (I work in a business that "frowns" on it). But my cell phone is still the same. I've been getting a lot of harassing dead air phone calls - and I tried everything to get them to stop. Eventually, I went to my cell provider who looked it up where everything was coming from. It turns out my ex is using fake phone numbers service to call me. WHY? It's been years since we broke up. And if he wanted to "reconnect" he could have just called. What the HELL, man?