If a girl is attractive, will guys approach her no matter what? Or am I unattractive since nobody approaches me?
Most Helpful Guy
It could be other girls there are more outgoing and "approachable" so they get the guys. I think if you are attractive, at least some guy would approach, but it depends on the confidence level of the guys doesn't it. I see places where not many women get approached at all, guys don't have the... energy... I think you need to work on making yourself more approachable.
I was very shy and introverted at your age. Was out this week and talked to various gals and there was one sitting over in a corner like she was scared and introverted while everyone else was dancing. I eventually decided to go talk to her and she perked up and said she had a dual ear infection so didn't feel good. In this case, I had to go out of my element to walk that distance. Make it easier for him! Or get out and mingle. The best solution to curing your shyness, is to make baby steps of engagement with people each day, work on having a good contact/conversation. write it down, write how you felt, what you learned. Build up a database of success and it gets easier. It's always work for us introverts.
Most Helpful Girl
Guys LOVE attractive women. They don’t give a shit about uglies like me