I said yeah sure it was fine.
But it got me thinking. So guys, why do you flirt with a girl if you have no crush on her?
Most Helpful Guy
Its good practice and sometimes it just naturally comes out when having a good convo
Most Helpful Girl
The definition of flirting according to Merriam-Webster is
"to behave amorously without serious intent" while the urban dictionary states that flirting is
"A person who is innocently overly friendly, especially the type of friendliness that is interpreted as seduction"
So, one should think that this type of contact should be innocent. However, I have asked many guys and girls about their definition of flirting and most of them (80% I would guess) tell me that the final goal of a flirt is to have a more intimate relation with the person they are flirting with.
In your case, I am not so sure that this flirt was really so innocent as what he made you believe. That would put him into the 10-20% of the people that have no "bad" intentions.
Mainly at your age where the sexual hormones, both in men and women are just slightly off peak, I would be cautious about his intentions. If you are not serious about going into a relation then you can just leave it at that, otherwise, it is up to you to follow-up on his approach