Guys- do you flirt with you female friends?

Even if they have a boyfriend or married?

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  • No, that's disrespectful. I am bad at flirting anyway. I usually only talk to girls or flirt when the show some interest, and I know they're single.

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    • 5d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

  • Negative, I don’t have an female friends...

    Jk, no I do not flirt with girls whom are just my friends, but I can’t speak for everyone. I do try to consciously make an effort to divide the two though. I don’t want to lead a girl on and hurt her in the end. Even on Snapchat for example, I will send flirty snaps to the girl I like and send a totally different to the rest of the girls on my streak.

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    • 6d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

      How should she take this?

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    • 6d

      Well shit than he should definitely know that’s off limits then shame on him. I never caught that part sorry.

    • 6d

      Lol yeh. And maybe you’re wrong and he knows. He may just be playing around. But we had that convo a week ago. And he text me that stuff today. But we are close friends. And he was pushing me to stay with my man, so that’s a good sign

  • Only Savannah. This woman I know who resembles a French actress I've seen on television. She has a flirty personality so I can rest my chin on her shoulders when she is sitting down at the museum with me every Friday discussing her work.

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    • 6d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

  • I flirt without even knowing it so yes.
    Plus there can be friendly flirting where it don't actually mean anything it's just more funny friendly thing.

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    • 6d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

      How should she take this?

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    • 5d

      Ooooo. Here was the convo we had about my man- which to me showed he can’t like me romantically. Correct?

      Him- you going to have babies
      Her- omg I don't know
      Him- dint feel pressure.
      Her- yeh just so unsure of everything and him. Still
      Him- at this point you’re not going to leave him. So you may as well make it work. Try to find his good qualities and fours on that.
      Her- yeh. Yeh. I’m not going anywhere. It’s just I’m not in love and I feel bad
      Him- well. I know but maybe look at him differently then
      Her- yeh. He changed a lot for me. Anyway.

    • 5d

      Probably i don't know unfortunately.

  • I might do some tame flirting on occasion, but nothing remotely serious.

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    • 6d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

    • 6d

      To me, he's just being funny. I wouldn't take that (on its own) too seriously.

    • 6d

      Weve been friends for a couple years. Close friends. He used to make comments like that a year ago but stopped. I see him at university 1-2x a week. He’s typically never like that in person (except he was a year ago) So I was so thrown off by his comment lol. Especially when him and I were talking about my man two days ago and how he knew I wasn’t ever going to leave my current relationship. Lol. So that’s why I’m confused

  • married and my wife and I both flirt with other people sometines other couples together. What can I say we are freaks.

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    • 6d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

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    • 5d

      We both say Your Welcome.

    • 5d

      Oh, one more thing When I was young I never got the hint either. She had to tell me to buzz off, for me to get the hint.

  • I do but just a little. Enough to be fun and friendly but not so much that they would consider leaving their mate or need to avoid me

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    • 6d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

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    • 6d

      Oh well crap. I’ve pulled back from being around him as munch. Now I only see and y’all to him once a week. It used to be 2-3x a week

    • 6d

      If I were you, I’d decide to leave your husband to find yourself true MUTUAL love OR begin putting some energy into rekindling what you once did have with your husband. to continue with a man you dont love will only end up hurting both your husband and you and possibly this friend too.

  • Jokingly Yes, if they are in a relationship I dont disrespect i just joke around with them even though part of me sometimes wishes they were single

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    • 5d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

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    • 4d

      Wow. Thank you for the thoughtful reply. I guess I’m always in denial of how he could possibly want to be with me. But I am in a marriage and I am older than him. And I don't know how he can maintain deeper feelings for me. I dint want him to hurt. But I do love him deeply

    • 4d

      Age has nothing to do with it , he probably wants to have sex with you more knowing you are older. then him , Guys tend to love older women , so dont think your age is making him not want you. Just be careful , it's your life so whatever direction you go is on you. You are. married so thats something you should be really be focusing on but again like i said it's your life , just trying. to help

  • No.. though I'm married.. and if they are married or otherwise attached they are off limits.. I won't be a home wrecker.

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    • 5d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

  • Can be perceived like that for some when I'm not in to someone.

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      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

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    • 5d

      Weve been friends for a couple years. Close friends. He used to make comments like that a year ago but stopped. I see him at university 1-2x a week. He’s typically never like that in person (except he was a year ago) So I was so thrown off by his comment lol. Especially when him and I were talking about my man two days ago and how he knew I wasn’t ever going to leave my current relationship. Lol. So that’s why I’m confused

    • 5d

      Nothing to worry about since you have to make it happen if it should be anything more if he is in to you.
      It's he's choice to stay in the situation as the friend that hopes fore you to begin to see him in the same way he sees you if he have that kind of feelings.

      Personal would I let it be as it is, no one knows about the future, it can develop to something special further on or just very close friends.
      Only fools through away opportunity like that.

  • I only flirt with someone if I genuinely like them and know that they're single.

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    • 6d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

      How should she take this?

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    • 5d

      Here was the convo about my man we had THE DAY BEFORE he made this donut comment... which made me think he didn't like me...

      This was all in person:
      Him- you going to have babies
      Her- omg I don't know
      Him- don't feel pressure to do it
      Her- yeh just so unsure of everything and him. Still
      Him- at this point its not like you’re not going to leave him.
      Her- yeh. Yeh. I did once. lol But I don't know it’s just I’m not in love with him and I feel bad
      Him - Try to find his good qualities and fours on that. Like when a girl liked me and I didn't think she was attractive I'd focus on her personality.
      Her - I'm not unattracted to him, but were just different. Like he and I have different views. But- then if I left I'd have to do the dating thing again... and then i'm old... and no-one will love me like him...
      Him - yeah

    • 5d

      He seems rather caring. He seems to want to help you fix your relationship.
      Now I'm confused. This guy is sending mixed signals.
      Best would be to straight out confront him and ask him.

  • If they're in a relationship no I won't butt otherwise heck yeah

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  • I don't even talk with people who are in relationships

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    • 5d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

    • 5d

      that is flirting

    • 5d

      Weve been friends for a couple years. Close friends. He used to make comments like that a year ago but stopped. I see him at university 1-2x a week. He’s typically never like that in person (except he was a year ago) So I was so thrown off by his comment lol. Especially when him and I were talking about my man two days ago and how he knew I wasn’t ever going to leave my current relationship. Lol. So that’s why I’m confused

  • Honestly I do.

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    • 5d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

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    • 4d

      Weve been friends for a couple years. Close friends. He used to make comments like that a year ago but stopped. I see him at university 1-2x a week. He’s typically never like that in person (except he was a year ago) So I was so thrown off by his comment lol. Especially when him and I were talking about my man two days ago and how he knew I wasn’t ever going to leave my current relationship. Lol. So that’s why I’m confused

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      I understand. Try to be cool and realistic. You will find many such guys.

  • Depends if i am attracted to them

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    • 5d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

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    • 5d

      ok just checking it kind of threw me off haha can i pm you and tell you what i honestly think?

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      yes. I just sent you a follow request. :) I"m penny

  • No I don't have roving eye prefer to stick to 1

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    • 5d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

  • Sometimes.

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      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

  • No I don't

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    • 6d

      I treat them like guys except I'm more gentle around them because there are some things that guys are ok with that most girls I'm friends with even the nicest ones would never tolerate

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    • 5d

      Ooooo. Here was the convo we had about my man- which to me showed he can’t like me romantically. Correct?

      Him- you going to have babies
      Her- omg I don't know
      Him- dint feel pressure.
      Her- yeh just so unsure of everything and him. Still
      Him- at this point you’re not going to leave him. So you may as well make it work. Try to find his good qualities and fours on that.
      Her- yeh. Yeh. I’m not going anywhere. It’s just I’m not in love and I feel bad
      Him- well. I know but maybe look at him differently then
      Her- yeh. He changed a lot for me. Anyway.

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      Possibly he may have accepted that he will only be your close friend and so he might flirt occasionally to let it out, but he won't actively try to win you over.

  • He’s probably just joshing, unless he’s not.

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    • 6d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

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    • 4d

      You would say so what?
      After we had the coco about my man the next day he sent the donut text

    • 4d

      That you are correct in assuming that he doesn’t like you romantically. Either that or he’s not going to act on it.

  • Yeah of course

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    • 6d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

      How should she take this?

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    • 5d

      Just because you got a man doesn't mean he's giving up

    • 5d

      Here was the convo about my man we had THE DAY BEFORE he made this donut comment... which made me think he didn't like me...

      This was all in person:
      Him- you going to have babies
      Her- omg I don't know
      Him- don't feel pressure to do it
      Her- yeh just so unsure of everything and him. Still
      Him- at this point its not like you’re not going to leave him.
      Her- yeh. Yeh. I did once. lol But I don't know it’s just I’m not in love with him and I feel bad
      Him - Try to find his good qualities and fours on that. Like when a girl liked me and I didn't think she was attractive I'd focus on her personality.
      Her - I'm not unattracted to him, but were just different. Like he and I have different views. But- then if I left I'd have to do the dating thing again... and then i'm old... and no-one will love me like him...
      Him - yeah

  • Yes we all do it, it's just harmless fun.

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      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

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    • 5d

      Taken the piss? lol Whats that mean...

    • 5d

      Taking the piss means taking the mick poking fun.

  • if they un attached then yes

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    • 6d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

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    • 6d

      well if you guys are saying harmless flirty stuff and nothing comes from it he should get the hint its a joke and nothing will be pursued by the sounds of it

    • 5d

      Ooooo. Here was the convo we had about my man- which to me showed he can’t like me romantically. Correct?

      Him- you going to have babies
      Her- omg I don't know
      Him- dint feel pressure.
      Her- yeh just so unsure of everything and him. Still
      Him- at this point you’re not going to leave him. So you may as well make it work. Try to find his good qualities and fours on that.
      Her- yeh. Yeh. I’m not going anywhere. It’s just I’m not in love and I feel bad
      Him- well. I know but maybe look at him differently then
      Her- yeh. He changed a lot for me. Anyway.

  • A little but nothing serious

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      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

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    • 6d

      I think he tried to get something more with you but since you didn't shown interest, he gave up, and it was just a friendly joke, if he doesn't continue the flirting it was a joke.

    • 6d

      @molgabor thank you. I’ll just chaulk it up to him being silly. Because he obviously knows I’m not leaving my man lol
      Thanks for the help

  • Yes. Even if they are married or boyfriend. They sometimes complain that they don't get enough attention at home. Where else are they going to get clean innocent flirting from?

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    • 6d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

    • 5d

      That's crossing some boundaries. Even though that's something I would say. Depending on how much and how close your relationship is with the friend is.
      I've known, one in particular, for 2 years in May. And I am starting to go beyond my limit of boundaries. (meaning I'm trying to be more open about my intentions and more obvious with hinting/joking.)

    • 5d

      Weve been friends for a couple years. Close friends. He used to make comments like that a year ago but stopped. I see him at university 1-2x a week. He’s typically never like that in person (except he was a year ago) So I was so thrown off by his comment lol. Especially when him and I were talking about my man two days ago and how he knew I wasn’t ever going to leave my current relationship. Lol. So that’s why I’m confused

  • If they have boyfriend or married no, in other case if i find them attractive yes. I won't apologize for that.

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    • 6d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

  • If I'm attracted to them and they're single then a definite yes but to your question if they are taken. . . Yes, I still flirt but it's more playful than trying to attract them. I don't make advancements on them.

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    • 6d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

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    • 5d

      Maybe, but he still could but isn't letting his romantic feelings get in the way of treating you like a friend.

    • 5d

      hmmm ok. I guess ill never know lol. Hopefully he moves on soon

  • Much less if they have a relationship, but I'd still be more touchy-feely with them.

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      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

    • 6d

      That's a flirty joke, hard to say how serious it is. But plausible deniability is a good spot to be in.

    • 6d

      Weve been friends for a couple years. Close friends. He used to make comments like that a year ago but stopped. I see him at university 1-2x a week. He’s typically never like that in person (except he was a year ago) So I was so thrown off by his comment lol. Especially when him and I were talking about my man two days ago and how he knew I wasn’t ever going to leave my current relationship. Lol. So that’s why I’m confused

  • And why should I risk getting in trouble for boosting a female's ego in the goddamn world?

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    • 6d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

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    • 6d

      That's why I'm not for male-female friendship. They're not necessary and they cause much more trouble than benefit.

    • 5d

      Ooooo. Here was the convo we had about my man- which to me showed he can’t like me romantically. Correct?

      Him- you going to have babies
      Her- omg I don't know
      Him- dint feel pressure.
      Her- yeh just so unsure of everything and him. Still
      Him- at this point you’re not going to leave him. So you may as well make it work. Try to find his good qualities and fours on that.
      Her- yeh. Yeh. I’m not going anywhere. It’s just I’m not in love and I feel bad
      Him- well. I know but maybe look at him differently then
      Her- yeh. He changed a lot for me. Anyway.

  • Nah that's fucked up. Meaning they have someone lining up if y'all don't make it

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    • 6d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

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    • 5d

      you just said that

    • 5d

      Sorry!!! lol

  • Yes, if they show some interest

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    • 6d

      What if he said the following via text to a close female friend?

      Her- That salesman brought me donuts again. Chocolate ones.
      Him- That dude really wants it
      Her- I’m about to let him have it if he brings those chocolate ones lol
      Him- damn. about to go buy some chocolate donuts!

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