We can't read minds, nor have the patience to try to. Just say what you want from us. Also, being straightforward/upfront about stuff could really benefit you. We don't always have time to figure out what's up with you.
We care about more than just sex
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Most guys want a happy, successful, positive life filled with love and fun. Most guys are not intending to cause harm, abuse, or attack women. They want to make love, not war.
well said !
Thanks. I just know as a guy I feel safer in most situations than women, who probably daily feel really unsafe in everyday public situations. Wish they could feel safer overall.
It's because women are softer and less confident than men are. Thank you for being so empathic with us , we need more men like you in this cruel world !
That we probably wouldn't ever talk to most of you if we didn't want to fuck so much... And I dont care what the occasion is... yoga pants are best
Why? (I'm not trying to be aggressive, I'm actually curious, because I have guy friends who are in serious relationships and because I girls like having guts as friends too.)
For sure... but admit it... you dont have any guy friends that would never consider fucking even a little
I most definitely have guy friends who I have zero attraction to. Are you telling me that every friendly guy is only like that on the off chance we have sex? That can't be true. Am I the weird one here?
Yeah... guys may never act on it bit there's a reason for girl friends... deep down they want to bone them
Oof. Good to know I guess
Wait even the ones in commited relationships though?
refreshing honesty lol but come on men aren't all about sex !!
That just because we complain less doesn't mean everything is amazing for us LOL
that's exactly why i asked :p are you gonna answer this or what? x)))
no that in itself is what I want girls to understand LOL
yeah but we already know that u. u
U do now lol
I'd say, that we Men have a yearning for Women, (It's our wiring) but most of us go about the wrong way in pursuing one! So bear with us in our clumsiness.
MOST important? We aren't like you guys. Consider this in all interactions. (this counts of course vice versa)
Hints, beating around the Bush, riddles are all insults to my honesty and are ignored, be direct with me if you want results.
Men and women are different, i love girls who adores becoming houseeives... if you don't like it, please don't waste my time and yours.
That you will have to tell them what is wrong and not make them figure it out. They will never figure it out.
does this spell actually works? :p
Mixed results tbh 😂
It’s important to respect women.It’s a sentence I tell all my friends jaja.
Hints don’t work! Be direct in what you want.
They need lots of sexual gratification
A majority of us don’t care about how much money you make the way women care. I could give a rat’s ass if you worked at a fast food restaurant. It just means free fast food for me. As long as you’re fucking hot I don’t care. On another note even if you’re hot as hell we all pretty much check out other women w the exception of the men who aren’t into women.
It’s difficult to pick one thing.Let’s go with this: In a relationship, women need to feel bonded to want sex and sex is an expression of closeness. For men, having sex is what causes that close, bonded feeling in the first place. It’s great when you both realize it because it can work like a feedback loop. When you don’t, it leads to unhappiness and frustration.
"For men, having sex is what causes that close, bonded feeling in the first place." so men need sex to be close to a women? isn't that a liiiiiittle superficial?
I think that’s oversimplifying it or maybe taking it too literally. If you’re in a relationship, you’re already close to some extent, no? I’m talking about over the long term when the infatuated feelings of new love are gone.A man wants to find acceptance and reassurance in the arms (and bed) of the woman he loves. The closeness he feels after sex is what bonds him to her and makes him want to be—and very much enjoy being—a thoughtful and solicitous husband or boyfriend.In my experience, it is the opposite for women. My wife won’t be in the mood for sex if I’m distant, irritable, thoughtless, or if I neglect what makes her happy. In turn, it might be a lack of sex (my lack of feeling close to her) that makes me distant and irritable.On the other hand, if she’s grumpy and irritable, it has absolutely no effect on how interested I am in sex. I love her and will do it whenever she wants. (I don’t see it as her being superficial that she isn’t like me in that way, though I could probably make that argument, too.)
Oh.. yes , you're right ! they don't say "happy wife, happy life" for nothing :p you have to be specefic with the situation , i thought u were talking about men who aren't necessarly in a "serious relationship". In this case, i agree ! great analysis , thank you.
You’re welcome. :)Many people see “Happy wife, happy life” as axiomatically true. Having a happy wife is certainly a good thing for a husband to aspire to, it’s amusing to say it when you’re doing something unpleasant for your wife, and it rhymes, but there’s danger in taking it too seriously or interpreting it in an unhealthy way. It shouldn’t be used by either person to barter for anything, otherwise you’ll end up with an entitled wife who doesn’t really know who her husband is and a resentful husband who’ll seek affairs, buy expensive toys, and drink too much. When it comes to either person getting what they want, open communication, true friendship, and mutual respect win the day.
We are not all the same and we are more direct than you are and it's what we react to. We don't think the same way or analyse things like you do (generally speaking, everyone is different). That's why "subtle hints" often don't work with us. It's not that we don't pick up on them, it's that they aren't direct enough. If you leave room for doubt, we'll doubt it.
Actually what you say is not generalization but said to be true by science ;) men tend to have deeper analysis than women , whereas us women give a general view of things and tend to be more empathic. ( Neuroscience of sex differences) . Men tend to have larger brains on average , of course not all areas are to be sexually differentiated but it affects.
All dudes care bout is sex!
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