So most men aren't abusive?

I've always looked for signs of abusive personality in men. I wasn't too trusting in the beginning.

So far I've been in 3 long-term relationships and surprisingly never been abused nor felt controlled in any manner.
My mother and aunt used to say most men are abusive and how it's in their nature (due to testosterone levels) to control and be aggressive. I was led to believe men are like dynamites. Some explode right away and others later on. I was told that if I find a non-abusive one then I'm lucky because that's a needle in a haystack.
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Base on their logic... I got lucky 3 times.
So most men aren't abusive?
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