I'm overweight and my friend doesn't want me to lose weight to find love because I'm single, he said "they don't deserve you, eat and have fun". He also told me that I'm not fat at all and that I'm amazing the way I am (I weight 180 lbs lol). And when I told him that I will remain single forever he said "so what? if you find your happiness while eating, eat and don't think about what people think about you", I know this doesn't sound like a healthy advice to give to a friend lol. Not only that, he told me "I love your cheeks by the way, don't you ever touch them" twice, and he calls them his cheeks. I feel like he was just being nice to me as a friend, but do you guys think he was not being platonic?