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My life is very much in order but I myself, like lots of guys today, feel I will probably never get married or get into a stable relationships if I reach a certain age. Right now i'm super successful financially and will be even better off in my 40s. So I mean, if by 40/41 I have money, a great career, freedom to travel and do as i please, semi-retired - what the fuck would be the point of bringing a woman into my life who will likely drive me nuts and just add problems and complexity to my life?Settle down for what?
I joined the proper church and found the love of our lord and savior. itsgoingdown.org/.../11112-6.jpg
Most men are going to say the women they marry and it's the same for women
I partied so much during my teen years that I was over it by my 20's.I met a hot chick and didn't want anyone else.Didn't even want to drink or see my friends anymore.We had a kid and being a dad became my priority.
Guys gotta have his resources in order. You can do the fam jam n shit , pay the bills, listen to babble, put coin away, etc... But a guy's gotta have his thrills. Whether it be going triple the speed limit, dusting an oz. Of blow the occasional weekend, or going hunting with his buddies (get hammered). A man isn't designed to be a puppet or a controlled organism 100% of the time.
Finding the right one. I'm not that old yet, but I feel like I've found the person that makes me wake up happier. So, in terms of getting their act right/shit together, I guess the solution is finding either true love or happiness in your current lifestyle.
I’m happy that you found that person for you, I hope things work out for you two.
Most people I know have there life together and ain't settled down. I go out every weekend but also make good money and am happy. People who are settled down are just boring and they say that they're no longer childish to justify being boring
I got my shit together early. Like about 23 or 24. But never felt the need to settle down. I don't settle down. I make an adult commitment to a person I love. Point is, I don't settle.
I don't know cuz I'm still in my 20s fkin around. But even then I think I have my shit together.
The fukboyz never do honey. But you think bedding him will convince him otherwise. FAIL They LIKE it like that.
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I answered about working for your boyfriend 7 years older as your boss. Don't do it. What else ya got? :)
What does it mean when my boyfriend keeps telling me that I’m so difficult to please?
You're a typical fussy woman. Inexperienced men will fight that instead of just coming to grips with it. I married a very intelligent strong and beautiful woman nearly thirty years ago. You wanna talk about FUSSY. Dear god. Just remember not to complain about everything. The current status of everything in your life is up to your own good or bad interpretation. Yes, YOU get to choose.
Oh, and she's seven years younger as well. The vastly younger and more beautiful woman than my first wife. WAAAAAYYYYY. :)And we worked together - we met at work. Eventually management told me I had to fire her. Can you imagine that happening today? Romance at work just never quite works out. At least for work. The relationships are always tough, but if you keep at it can be successful and satisfying. One of the two has to lead and one has to follow. Both can't lead in a relationship, it just doesn't work. And if he can't, she will, but a woman loathes a man that cannot lead, make decisions, not go all weak and wishy-washy on her. She keeps testing that - it's called shit-tests. Another built-in woman feature. ;)
"Settle down" has nothing at all to do with "getting your life together." You've created a false equivalency here.
Society said that's what men where supposed to. Too bad it turned out to be something that was incredibly bad for me and my daughter.
What do you mean by fucking around and getting their shit together?
My life is together. As for "settling down" ... not a chance under current no-fault divorce law. That would be irrational.
I heard that purposefully having a kid with someone without even being 100% sure if he wants you or not works very well. Why don't you try that?
Settling down and getting your life together are not the same but can be but what makes you want that is YOU... How bad how you feel and why do you want it... But in the end its all on you
when i was a child i acted as a child i done as a child now that i have become a man i have put away childish things.
Met a conservative traditional sweet Christian woman and now we are talking about marriage and kids. Feminist sluts made me think id never get married. It takes a marriageable woman to make a man want to settle down.
Lucky. I wish you the best.
when i feel someone should bbe there with you always to think about us, i can share each thing which i want
My life didn't start to improve till my abusive father died a few years ago
I got it together to have kids, got back to the only good lifestyle tough...
Find the right person! When you find her/him and vice-versa, you will not hesitate
That's what i want to do right now but damn.. Girls standards are though the roof nowadays.
Most of the time a child
What exactly do you mean by "settle down"? Almost everybody in their 20s is fucking around whether they realize it or not.
Finding a chick who was both sane and easy to get along with.
I dont get to fuck around :)
I'll get back to you when that happens. :)
When that lifestyle isn’t fun anymore
When im financially secure
When you meet the right person you just know.
The military straightened my ass up
My creditors kept sending me payment notices.
Hahaha, I’m lonely.
Still fucking around
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