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Nah it just depends on the guys mindset really. You know when you're growing up and you learn to be polite and shit? You do well at school and everybody is always like just be a good boy shit will work out for you but it doesn't. Because nobody cares about a guy who just does what he's told, well nobody cares about you anyway but being polite just makes it worse. Cause nobody respects you and everybody just walks on you and it's not one thing that's really bad but over time it just pisses you off. And you wanna like burn the whole world down like the Joker in The Dark Knight. That's what happened to me anyway. It took me for ever to realise it but now I did. Now I won't give a fuck about people or what they think or feel I'll just do what I want to do. And that's the guys who are not gonna be intimidated cause they don't give any fucks. But aparently there's not too many out there. Too many brainwashed guys waiting their turn or whatever the fuck. If the guy doesn't have the balls to say he wants to fuck you and go after it, there's nothing in the world you can do to make it happen except initiate it yourself. But that's not what you want anyway.
Asking for his help or just going up to him and talking with him in a casual way.When I was in college, I was sitting outside the gym just taking a break or maybe even tying my shoe between classes and suddenly this gorgeous, sexy girl comes up to me and introduces herself to me and says, Hi! I've wanted to meet you for a while! I've seen you in the lunch room and thought you were a pretty neat guy!" We started talking and almost immediately became best friends!!A few months ago, a friend of mine invited me to meet up with him in a bar. We hadn't seen each other in about 20 years. I met him and he had his brother and HIS girlfriend with him... another gorgeous blonde also named, Jennifer! I ordered something to eat and as I was eating, both guys went outside for a smoke. I never talked to this girl before so I didn't bother starting to. For all I know, she would've thought I was trying to pick her up! After I took a few bites, SHE started conversing with ME and we got on very nicely together!
I wouldn't do anything fake like pretending to need help when you don't. Going out to have coffee and to talk show sincere interest. Let it grow from there and see what happens. If he's shy, it's going to take time. Be patient and show genuine interest. If he doesn't catch on after a suitable time, ask him out and see what happens. If nothing does, you might have to let it go. No response means he's just not up to the task.
Find out the specific guys main interests (Sports team, Star Wars, Music etc), do a little research on the topic and then ask him a questions about it.He will be confident talking about subjects/topics he knows inside out and once he is chatting to you about that for ages, you slowly shift conversation to something of more 'mutual' interests, and he will seamless continue in a relaxed manner.Asking for help won't put him at ease unless you get him relaxed chatting, but it creates an environment for one to one time.
Don't ask a shy guy for help. Chances are they're very introverted and scared as hell that you talked to them at all. I know - we can smell our own kind. Shy guys need you to get on their level to feel comfortable. A good way to do this is to sneak up behind them and then stand to their side and talk to them in a hush-hush sorta way. The hush-hush in the voice tells him you're trusting him enough to keep this conversation private. Also the lack of eye-contact will keep him from freezing. Tread carefully. They scare easily. Good luck.
Take your time and engage him with simple things. Shy guys open up slowly but keep talking to him with similar interests and we start to get more comfy. Know a coworker that I find very pretty whom I'd never would have approached. It was slow going but during lunch hours we did small talk and over the years it got to the point she would open up to just about anything and I am comfortable enough to open up to her very personal and intimate feelings, like if I'm feeling sad and vulnerable or did something incredibly embarrassing but I know she won't judge me or laugh at me.
It depends if your flirting then try to act shy yourself. because this one bold woman was staring and smiling at me the other day. she was looking at me like she wanted me to approach her. and I'm extremely shy so I got intimidated and broke wye contact. so if you are like this girl then act shy. so we don't get intimidated. and also ye let him help with things. let me tell you a secret. us guys love to feel like we can take on the world by ourselves. like we don't need any help. so ye follow those and you should be fine. or not it was just a suggestion.
Okay, first... who makes the determination that the girl is pretty? Beauty is always in the eye of the beholder. The assumption that girl makes that she is pretty is probably why a guy would be intimidated. Guys may naturally have hard time speaking to girls in general. I was that way. If you'd like to break the silence, just ask him about something. Ask him what he drives, and follow up with what would he like to drive if had his way. Things like that get a guy to open up.
I wouldn't suggest that (the might not have the answer), maybe ask them about games they play or shows they watch. It might seem random but if they really are shy they will be so relieved when you initiate the conversation. I wish more girls would talk to shy guys because there's literally nothing wrong they can do as long as they're nice.
No don't ask for a guys help. He'll just think you're trying to use your good looks to get him to do your bidding. You'll need to initiate and be flirty, smile at him, touch him etc until he realises you like him so he feels confident reciprocating. So basically get him to the same point as you'd get with a hot guy before being flirty back.
Depends on how well shell knows him. If she doesn't know him at all and wants him to approach her, try to stand near him when few people are around and look/smile at him. If you don't mind speaking up, then asking for his help with something would work well.
Just be genuinely kind when talking to guys, especially if you like them. The reason many guys won't approach a woman they feel is too attractive to them is due to the stereotype that the prettier the woman the bitchier she is. If a guy feels welcome around a woman he will feel better around her.
Not saying this applies to you, but too many pretty girls have zero personality. They think they can just show up and look pretty and that's all they need to do. Many times that's true. Not with guys who are worth the time though.
Nothing helps. Nothing you do can. You can help motivate but nothing more. In fact, hurting him emotionally can lead to him making himself better. This is what happened to me. But it has to come from him.
That works for some guys. Other guys might think you're using your charms to take advantage of them. Personally, I think joking around is probably the best way. When you joke and play around, you seem more down to earth. More friendly. When you smile and laugh, you're less intimidating. It's a good place to start, I think.
Smiling works best. In certain circumstances, asking for help might too. Be careful not too be too friendly because guys will always see what they want to see.
Or you can just ask him out. How about that? :-)You know…try not to play mind games. Just do the direct work.And also accept that this is who he is and here is nothing you can do to change that. You can only be in touch with him for long time. His attitude towards you should change in time.
Todays world is so backwards it wasn't even 10 years ago where roles where reversd. Why are women always put on a pedestal started with thos god damn faggot hipsters.
Just be friendly, accepting, and approachable.The less a guy feels the looming rejection, the more he will enjoy hanging out.
Just try and be friendly, welcoming and inviting. If I guy is intimidated he won't initiate, so if you make him feel more comfortable be more at ease to talk to you and after a day or two it should be easy for you guys to get along.
Beats me. I am not shy nor intimidated and she is goegous. Personally I find attractive womem more easy to approach as well as more friendly.
Honestly? Just talk to him. I have a hard time approaching girls because I over-think a way to start the conversation, especially since girls are hard to read.
Whaaaat ? Why would anyone do this? Compassion only goes so far and that's too far as it goes against the process of natural selection.
Well if there is a shy guy she likes, should she just forget about him because of..."natural selection"? natural selection applies less and less than in the past, regarding homo sapiens. Maybe if the 'inner system' tells you that you fancy a guy he may be a good 'candidate'...
Nah, "Pretty girls" never think like that, that's material for a Disney film but it's not the reality. It's the wetdream of an ostracized young man.
Just be casual, laugh at his jokes, make eye contact, take initiative by for instance grabbing his hand to make him feel like you like him as much as he likes you. Show interest.
Pretty women? you mean the most insecure types of women of all? Ha...What makes you think they are intimidated? I know plenty of pretty girls... they are just boring.
Just talk to him first and you will have to ask him out. I'm talking, when beautiful girl wants to date shy guy she liked. Otherwise he will think you out of his league and just messing about.
No just avoid guys go for guys in your league they probably aren’t as shy and more confident in themselves
Also a lot of guys just don’t have confidence cause they have been beaten down by the media and told they are toxic and trash so maybe just tell them you appreciate them for being them
By her actions and making the guys feel welcome and important to her
You could take off your pants and dance around a little.
Talk to us, strike up a basic conversation. Guys nowadays are getting rejected more than ever so you have to let us know if you're interested. The moral is pretty low for us 😂
If they want to do that, pretty girls should gain some weight, so they appear less intimidating due to not being pretty anymore
don't dress/appear like you're trying to attract an alpha male
Does it work if the girl asks for the guy's help?yes..
but how by doing this help the guy feels less intimidated?
because you want something from him that he comprehends, it's an equal transaction... his help for your affection, it's easily to accept for him.When he doesn't feel attractive enough to get your affection (sometimes this happens even to handsome guys) he feels some kind of inequality if a very pretty girl asks him for a date or just spending time together.
Just go away and hide. You pretty women make us want to kill our selves.
I think so give it a go
That sounds like it could work. Good idea.
Be down to earth and upfront.
She needs to be proactive in interacting with him.
Umm no.. Just be friendly and cautious
She makes the move is what works for me.
I don’t think that’s ever gonna happen
Just be approachable and down to earth
Give him ur number
Just talk to them.
Smile and love him
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