What's funny is I did give him space I didn't text him or call him until just yesterday and i just asked how he was doing and he said good wbu and i said okay then he just left.
He's proabbly having a hard time getting over you and is unsure of himself if he wants to get rid of you or be friends with you. That's way he's giving you these half texts. It depends what kind of friendship he wants and you want from experience when people break up they cut off and never see them again.
Yeah ik but I want to be his friend. I just dont know what to do.
Did he give any reasons why he broke up with you, I know you said he had some shit going on but if you don't mind me asking what exactly.
That's all he said I have some shit to deal with
Mmm daym that would annoy me if I was in a relationship with someone you think you at least deserve the truth. Sounds like he might have a other girl on the chase but you never know maybe he's battling with depression or something.
He doesn't have the best family life tbh. And he's not one to cheat, before hoco he literally came to me face to face and asked if he could take another girl bc I am homeschooled the school wouldn't allow me to go with him.
I do and I've reached out to him multiple times but I always get left on read.
Damn, well it sounds like he was just being polite or he ended up not wanting to be friends. Do you see him anywhere or is it just over Snapchat?
Over Snapchat we used to see each other every now and then, but the thing is we started the relationship as friends and it was the best friendship I'd ever had. I didn't even realize I had feeling for him until I heard he was dating another girl.
I think there is a chance that for whatever reason, he has decided to ghost you. Either that or he is still dealing with his problems and he is unable to text you. If I were you, I would stop texting him and assume he is not going to talk to you again. It would be best to start to heal, but keep the option open for him to come back if he wants; just don't hope for it.
It hurts to do that to him. I am the kind of person that I can be hurt multiple times by the same person and still be there for them no matter what is that a bad thing?
Not bad, it shows that you care for others and that you are selfless, but it is a great way to be hurt and crippled. I know it will hurt to do that to him, but it is easier in the long run to scrap a knee then have your skin ripped open over a few years. And if he does return, it will be like finding a hundred dollar bill in a forgot pair of pants.
Okay. Tha k you for the advice.
Of course, good luck and I hope he replies soon
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Yeah sure you try that have a girl you really like break up with you say they still want to be friends then not even contact you unless you do first. Then we will see how true your get over it advice holds.
I would never put myself in that position in the first place, but nice try.
So you would never put yourself in a position to really like but then have her break up with you.. Well then congrats you must be the perfect boyfriend if you've never had a girl break up with you and break your heart at the same time. Or you just have never had a real girlfriend...
Yep that's it, you got it all figured out.
Just a friend now ig