Why has it never worked out when I've pursued a man?

Hey everyone.
I was just wondering if men actually want to have women make the first move. It's funny, I dated one guy for five years who asked me out, and I've really only had a good series of dates with men who came to me first and asked me out. I think I've asked out three men in my life (guys at my college were pretty shy and nerdy), but nothing ever came of it. It's like they just showed up, responded to my texts, but when I stopped trying, they didn't put in any effort either.
I'm a slim, pretty white woman if it makes a difference.
Why has it never worked out when I've pursued a man?
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