It gives nothing but more problems. Even the ones who listened to us, they would use those against us... telling that with years of experiences. We can't even believe someone who says he/ she would die for us!It is better not hearing bad things from someone whom you loved, trusted and cared of. Because you will not hate them; you will hate yourself... that will change your life. So, why give power to someone to change your life!!
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Well, of course they will if you chose the wrong women to talk to.
Also, some men do that too.
It's way more common with women. I have secrets that male friends told me 15 and 20 years not to tell anyone and I haven't. Women will get angry and at the drop of a fucking dime will tell the whole world OR simply put your down, berate and degrade you for having had a moment of weakness and crying in front of her.
Again, probably because you talk to the wrong women.
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