I feel so led on by a guy and he did so many things that showed he was interested, even when it was unnecessary, he also did things to show he wasn't interested and things that were vague. When I said smth he said "I like you as a person and a little sister. What did I do to make you think that? I was just trying to be normal" it also sounded like he was trying to convince himself. My instinct is that he was gaslighting me. And I can see how he has been slowly turning up the heat on me to the point where I was becoming insecure and didn't like how I was behaving. I'm glad to be done with this but annoyed about the dishonesty. Are guys aware when they're doing this or what is it?