Guys, Would you message every few days with a girl who you only had interest with as a friend?

Question

Hope that makes sense. And I'm talking long distance. And both the girl and the guy initiating.

Answer 1

markscott | 2.3K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Yes, I have done this from time to time. But there have also been times, with the same female friend, that I didn't contact her for a month. I have a very good female friend, and we might message every few days, then not for a week or two, or more. However, if your guy, and his female friend, message every few days, it's worth paying attention to, to be sure of what the relationship is.

Asker

9 mo
It's actually me and a guy. He probably just likes me as a friend, but I don't know? So...
markscott

9 mo
Asker: Being as it's you and a make friend, there is some real possibility that he likes you, as every few days is fairly frequent for a guy. Try flirting with him a little, though not too subtly. See what reaction that gets.
Asker

9 mo
Not too subtly lol? Can you please give me examples.
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markscott

9 mo
Flirting not too sublty, means being more open about the flirting, so it's more likely to be understood for just what it is, flirting. A wink at the right time, touching him more frequently when talking with him (touching his arm, shoulder, and possibly his thigh, as you converse with him) Holding eye contact a little longer than necessary, being physically closer to him than usual, when interacting with him, Laughing at his humor a little more easily and a little louder than usual, mentioning something about how good he looks, complimenting him more than usual, brushing up against his body 'accidentally", smiling more, maybe 'innocently' bringing up something about sex, so you being a woman is more on his mind, when seeing him, or when leaving him, hugging him a little tighter, a little longer, and a little more of your body touching him than usual. The prolonged eye contact, brushing up against him, more touching with your hands, a wink, the prolonged and more body contact with the hug, tend to be more than subtle, and more likely to get his attention. That makes it clear that you are interested in him, but is still not so obvious, that you would feel embarrassed if he did not respond.

Answer 2

Asker

It's actually me and a guy. He probably just likes me as a friend, but I don't know? So...

Answer 3

markscott

Asker: Being as it's you and a make friend, there is some real possibility that he likes you, as every few days is fairly frequent for a guy. Try flirting with him a little, though not too subtly. See what reaction that gets.

Answer 4

Asker

Not too subtly lol? Can you please give me examples.

Answer 5

markscott

Flirting not too sublty, means being more open about the flirting, so it's more likely to be understood for just what it is, flirting. A wink at the right time, touching him more frequently when talking with him (touching his arm, shoulder, and possibly his thigh, as you converse with him) Holding eye contact a little longer than necessary, being physically closer to him than usual, when interacting with him, Laughing at his humor a little more easily and a little louder than usual, mentioning something about how good he looks, complimenting him more than usual, brushing up against his body 'accidentally", smiling more, maybe 'innocently' bringing up something about sex, so you being a woman is more on his mind, when seeing him, or when leaving him, hugging him a little tighter, a little longer, and a little more of your body touching him than usual. The prolonged eye contact, brushing up against him, more touching with your hands, a wink, the prolonged and more body contact with the hug, tend to be more than subtle, and more likely to get his attention. That makes it clear that you are interested in him, but is still not so obvious, that you would feel embarrassed if he did not respond.

Answer 6

TremorJay | 82 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

If I'm still feeling it the person and haven't made up my mind, then yeah. Otherwise, no

TremorJay

9 mo
Feeling out*

Answer 7

TremorJay

Feeling out*

Answer 8

Quidthonian | 257 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Yes I would, contact must be regular. That is the way to build friendship and more.

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