I can see this but it really depends on the context we don't understand yet
@Uberknot yeah we are just talking getting to know each other. He said goodnight and then said that. I don't know if it was a joke or what.
Okay, well, I suggest that you start CALLING him at night, and expect to have a quick conversation with him and for it to be over - if he is trying to disengage, you need to let him go for the night. And you need to spend more time face-to-face so you can have comfortable conversations, and not try to do all this "getting to you know" on your phones. That's no way to establish a relationship.
I definitely see your point.
I have had to explain to the girls I'm dating: I work hard to free up as much time as I can to spend with her, but when i'm away from her, I'm BUSY trying to earn the next hours of free time, which means I have to be able to focus on my work with as few interruptions as possible. I've also taken them to work with me for a day, and had them follow me around - up ladders, onto roofs, crawling under furniture, going up and down stairs multiple times, etc. - and see what I do. After seeing my day in person, I never have any trouble, because it becomes VERY obvious what I mean when I say that I'm busy.
I do get it. I know he has a lot on his plate I was just thrown by the comment. This is my first time even talking to a guy in years. I’m just so new to it all
Exactly. He was talking to me with no indication Of being annoyed or busy. I would have respected that
Don't know what to say, but you do need to talk.
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Was the rule agreed upon beforehand or is this out of nowhere?
No he said it was his rule.
Well rather draconian, was there a good reason given. (At work, etc) and are other methods of communication allowed.
No. He was home about to watch a movie
That's kind of BS tbh. It doesn't sound like he's very interested but I don't know your whole situation.
I don’t get it. The night before he was telling me how I made his night by reaching out. He said I was on his mind and I reached out so he’ll go to sleep happy. Then in the morning he was checking on me. We were talking for a while tonight.
Might be burnt out then, give it some time.
That's when you say "you are messaging me a lot right now and I'm trying to do X. Please stop "
@Uberknot well this guy isn’t
@Uberknot I agree. But honestly it was back and forth not like I was forcing the conversation.
Ok I asked for opinions... why the smart ass remarks?
Its a symptom of the coarsening of society. He feels he is anonymous so he feels free to give reign to his inner asshole-his true self. Today if you disagree with anyone they feel free to let fly with personal aspersions. Those who so engage tend to be younger men who cannot control themselves and therefore cannot get female companionship. In other words, angry Incels. Luxhian fits this.
Yo hablo no ingles bitch
Listen little boy grow the fuck up. And leave the real advice to the adults. Little bitch ass