Why I (21 years old) never had a boyfriend, male attention or male friends? Why no guy have ever been interested in me?

Question

i’m not creepy, I take care of myself and am feminine. I’m not a monster. I’m not pretty, I have a nice personnality but nobody knows bc nobody cares
I’m nice and polite
nobody ever care about me. All guys don’t give a sh** about me, even the ones who are overweight or nerdy and so on
I don’t have ig bc nobody cares

Answer 1

brigfrey25

Xper 6

I am alternate version of you. And look at my age. How sad is this? 😂😂😂

Asker

9 mo
I’m going to be the same
I hope you’re going to find love, everyone deserves it🤍
brigfrey25

9 mo
Females don't give a shit about me. Especially those close to or around my age. Still got no female friends. ( Not counting any online friends, coz I haven't met anyone of em yet..) lol
Asker

9 mo
I understand what you’re going through. It’s exactly the same for me with boys. What do you do to cope with depression?
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brigfrey25

9 mo
I have stopped thinking about it long time ago. Besides I had trouble interacting with girls anyway lol. I simply flirt online to boost my confidence.

Also I have started noticing something else recently I don't know how to go with that.

Answer 2

Asker

I’m going to be the same
I hope you’re going to find love, everyone deserves it🤍

Answer 3

brigfrey25

Females don't give a shit about me. Especially those close to or around my age. Still got no female friends. ( Not counting any online friends, coz I haven't met anyone of em yet..) lol

Answer 4

Asker

I understand what you’re going through. It’s exactly the same for me with boys. What do you do to cope with depression?

Answer 5

brigfrey25

I have stopped thinking about it long time ago. Besides I had trouble interacting with girls anyway lol. I simply flirt online to boost my confidence.

Also I have started noticing something else recently I don't know how to go with that.

Answer 6

Papajohns | 74 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 6

You seem a little down on yourself, that certainly doesn't help

Asker

9 mo
Not really, it’s just the things the way they are
Papajohns

9 mo
Ever heard of the self fulfilling prophecy
Asker

9 mo
Yes
I tried to came out of my shell and act like I was great but it didn’t work out. It was worst.
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Papajohns

9 mo
How so

Answer 7

Asker

Not really, it’s just the things the way they are

Answer 8

Papajohns

Ever heard of the self fulfilling prophecy

Answer 9

Asker

Yes
I tried to came out of my shell and act like I was great but it didn’t work out. It was worst.

Answer 10

Papajohns

How so

Answer 11

chriscdi | 2.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

well you gotta be more confident, at least give yourself that 😁

Why I (21 years old) never had a boyfriend, male attention or male friends? Why no guy have ever been interested in me?

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