Subconsciously I probably am doing it to push him to be more tough than he is
No you are being destructive. It is not your place to "toughen" him up. Either love him for who he is or leave.
@jgokgotit We’ll I’m ignoring him at the moment so maybe that will teach him
He will absolutely not leave me. I tried the break up thing but he nearly had a heart attack
That’s how I feel now with my boyfriend. I just can’t help but do things to see him in pain
Just like I told the asker of this question, you can leave and find a man who deserves your crap.
@jgokgotit yes, one that has no self respect, just like the OP.
Don’t be jealous whore. You’re probably just not lovable
I'm sure you're very lovable. She's just upset rn, ignore her
@potatoiswhoiam Ignore the asker's mean reply to you. I just reported her. If she is lashing out at a community of strangers like this, I can only imagine the abuse she puts her boyfriend through.
I agree with @jgokgotit
@jgokgotit You’re too sensitive just like my boyfriend. You need help
Asker, I served in the military so I know my strength. Having emotions is not a weakness.
@jgokgotit Yes, very well said! We are humans, we do have emotions. She is mentally sick in wanting to hurt people.
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And a bag of chips
He brings out my abusive side
It sounds like he's just a way for you to justify your abusive side. It's going to come out one way or another, and he's the closest weak thing to you as of now.
@Sonorous He should be able to step up as a man but he isn’t doing that.
A man will take much from a woman he loves. He is strong for that. The asker is the weak one for not valuing her partner.
@jgokgotit He could try to focus on himself more instead of giving me all his energy and attention. It’s annoying as fuck and might get him ghosted soon
I’m perfectly healthy thanks.
Yep, that's what evil people tell themselves...
Or you just really hate him.. both are bad. Have you felt this way in past relationships?
Yeah I seem to attract weak men
Sociopaths see everyone as weak.
Yes he is kind (of fucking up my ass)
It could be him who’s bringing it out of me
Of course, never your fault, right?
@spartan55 Nobody likes feeling suffocated
So fucking dump him then! Duh.
@spartan55 He might kill himself
Oh please, spare me the drama. If he does, that's on him, not you. Horrible excuse for not dumping him.
@spartan55 He is a horrible excuse of a man