What would be the point moving to the another just as friend as he claims
Does it help you reach the life goals that you have for yourself? If you're in your late 20s, that's a super important question. If the strength of your "friendship" is something that can sustain you emotionally through you questing for your goals, maybe that's a reason to move. If he's not okay with the eventuality that you may never be anything more than friends, I would say you should be cautious. It's hard enough in life to chase your own dreams and goals to achieve happiness. If you're trying to do that, while also dealing with the guilt of someone trying to push a romantic relationship on you after you've moved... Totally not worth the hassle. You can be the best you, wherever you are. Does this guy help you forward or drag you backwards from your dreams? If you don't know for sure, moving to another state is a huge leap of faith...
You mean he's pushing a relationship he's the one that asked to move
Could be. I mean the choice to move is totally on you and what you NEED as person. If you're considering moving because of him, I would say think twice, because what is his need in asking you to move?
The easy answer from me to you is no, not a good idea. The hard answer is, probably not, but because I don't know you or him well enough to answer.
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seriously, what do you guys want
He probably wants a relationship with you or use you to get there. I've seen both. I'm just answering your question. I don't want anything 😂
I'm not sure he would use me to move when he can move there himself easily
I'm just trying to help