Why is he behaving like this with me? Does he fancy me?

Question

I have started going to a quiz from October and I get on well with a guy who goes there. I was talking to a couple of girls one night when the guy said to the girls that I cheat and then I said to the girls, "I don't cheat" and then the guy said to me, "When I said you cheat, I wasn't talking about the quiz. He was joking. When I was with the guy last night, I told him about another quiz I'm going to and when he asked me how am I getting there, I told him that my partner is collecting me and I'm staying with him that night. As soon as I mentioned my partner to him, he looked away from me and then he nodded slowly and he said, "Happy days then". He looked very distant since I mentioned my partner.

Why is this guy behaving like this with me?

Yes he does fancy you

No he doesn't fancy you

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Answer 1

CharlieUnicorn

Xper 6

Rude.
It's clear he was hoping you were single but it's common courtesy to keep talking a bit about random things before you take off. Not only did he make it abundantly clear he was looking for a date (which is fine really), but also that he couldn't spare 1 additional minute to chat with someone who's not available for dating.

It possibly means he thought that you saw clearly he was fishing for a date (and that's why you mentioned your partner), got a little embarassed and decided to fk off instantly, but that's no good excuse.
Wanting to flee instantly due to mild embarrassment is for pathetic weaklings.

Answer 2

ColoradoKid | 103 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Explorer

I am not sure on this. He may have felt bad that he was part of some one cheating on someone. I know I would. Or maybe he thought that you are bi and only wanted a one night stand and was going back to your partner. Or if there is partner quizzes maybe he was hoping to team up and he thought that you both would fall in love.. Its really hard to say.

Answer 3

PeacefulRainDrop | 68 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

he's respectful cause you have a partner.. be happy he's not making moves

the_sinner

8 mo
He might not be making moves yet. You never know.

Answer 4

the_sinner

He might not be making moves yet. You never know.

Answer 5

LukeLugh

Xper 4

His distant reaction is a clear sign of attraction and disappointment. I used to talk to a girl I liked regularly at a health food store, when she mentioned her boyfriend I lost interest as I was hoping to build up trust. His reaction is relatable, but unlike him I still talk to the girl I liked (and still am attracted to).

Answer 6

coolbreeze | 1.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

He has feelings for you and when you mentioned you had a partner it killed his vibe and made him feel some type of way.

Answer 7

Phoenix98 | 1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Sounds to me like he likes you and the mention of your partner killed his vibe.

Answer 8

LEADFOOTboi | 380 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Yup he liked you somewhat... Sounds like he's only trouble tho... RED FLAG

Answer 9

Dragan | 165 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

He had some plans for you.

Answer 10

Physics-Man | 66 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Looks like he may possibly have feelings for you.

Answer 11

Sabretooth | 925 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

possibly

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