What do I do guys?

Question

I look nervous and troubled in person because of past events and a lot of overthinking. But I hate when people feel sorry for me or give me the "poor guy" treatment.. I just hate it.

Answer 1

Vencam

Xper 5

Get a shirt with "I'M NOT A LOSER" on it
Jokes aside, I'd suggest getting a thicker skin for this kind of attitude or trying to understand why they act like that and may end up being grateful for the simple fact that they care for you, even if not in a way that you like...
Like my grandma likes to care about me giving me pocket money. Even if I feel like a hobo accepting it, I'm grateful becouse I know that's not her intent (just an example, and a dumb one at that, but hopefully it gets the point across)

Answer 2

boggboss | 4.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

You learn to keep your mind occupied on other things and hide how your feeling

ralph98

8 mo
I hate the poor guy treatment I just hate it.
boggboss

8 mo
No I get that learn to have 2 faces 1 that's always happy and your real 1
ralph98

8 mo
Ohhok do u think these people genuinely care about me tho
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boggboss

8 mo
No way to know that answer man
ralph98

8 mo
I don't know man but I feel v tend to feel sorry for people we feel good about tho
boggboss

8 mo
Yes that's true but at the same time many people will just idly ask