Is he having sex with other girl?

Question

So, late at night I was talking with my boyfriend, typical conversation. But the subject change, and we end talking about me getting a surgery for not having kids, so he starts talking about a contraceptive that is supposed to go under your skin, and is like a “birth control” stuff, so he talks about some girls at college having that, and then I just said “but that’s not 100% effective” and he is like “whaaaaaat? Are you serious, oh my god, really?” And I’m like “ yeah” and then he told me that he had sex with this girl like “2 years ago”, unprotected sex, so I told him why did you get so nervous, and why are you so worried? And he just changed subject.. so I really need some advice, because I don’t know if I’m overreacting or this guy really is cheating on me. Why being so worried about something that happened” 2 years ago”?

For sure.

No, you’re crazy.

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Answer 1

chriscdi | 2.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

ha seems like it dont it? just try and see what more info you can get try getting into that convo again and try getting her name, then check his followers online and see if she is there, if she is then you got more to suspect, look through his pics, you see her likes, then he is most likely cheating, if its 2 years ago, why she liking his shit still, its an idea, i never said it was a sane idea, it will take a little bit of stalking 🤷🏻‍♂️

Answer 2

Lynx122 | 373 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Normally I think girls are always overreacting to these kind of things but in this case there could be something to it. I can't say for sure though.

Asker

8 mo
But I mean, why being so worried about it?
It’s supposed to happen like “2 years ago” and this boy was acting like if he had unprotected sex yesterday. Is weird
Lynx122

8 mo
Yeah that's why I said you could be right.

Answer 3

Asker

But I mean, why being so worried about it?
It’s supposed to happen like “2 years ago” and this boy was acting like if he had unprotected sex yesterday. Is weird

Answer 4

Lynx122

Yeah that's why I said you could be right.

Answer 5

MzAsh | 336 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Regardless, there’s doubt in your mind now. Do you want to live with that?

Also, nothing is 100% effective besides not having sex. The implant releases hormones that stop you from getting pregnant and it’s over 99% effective. So it’s pretty reliable.

Answer 6

Riri5129

Xper 5

Could have been innocent like just a blonde moment where he forgot pregnancy only lasts 9 months lol but keep and eye on it I suppose XX don’t overthink

Answer 7

MrHopper | 446 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Add it to the back of your mind and if you get more vibes you know for sure... you can't base something that serious on a random conversation

Answer 8

kangy | 653 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

I won't be able to confirm on this but I think it will be good to observe his behaviour

Answer 9

Avicenna | 3.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Sounds like you're overreacting to me

Asker

8 mo
Maybe yes, maybe no.
This dude was like paralyzed when I told him that some girls get pregnant using that contraceptive.

Answer 10

Asker

Maybe yes, maybe no.
This dude was like paralyzed when I told him that some girls get pregnant using that contraceptive.

Answer 11

KrakenAttackin | 871 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

And it is pretty much 100%.

Answer 12

Iron_Man | 6.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Where there is smoke there is fire.

Is he having sex with other girl?

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