How can men change their attitude so quickly?

[Stella517]

I'm just curious since men think differently than women.

One moment things are good, me kissed me, showed affection and I felt really good. Then 2 weeks later I had a feeling he was cheating, confronted him but he didn't admit anything, told him I didn't want him anymore and all he could say was that I should move on like I said I would.

I could never understand how it went from one thing to another so quickly. And we were making plans to spend time together. It just didn't make sense. I still don't understand it and I want to.

Updates:

[ThePrimeDirective]

If he was cheating, was it because he had doubts about you long term or was it just a sexual thing? If it was just a sexual thing then his feelings for you may actually not have changed. If he was having doubts, he may not have been sure about his doubts in the beginning so didn't tell you because that might doom the relationship over something that may be unfounded to begin with. But eventually there's a tipping point with doubts where you then act on them. Sometimes people cheat to verify their doubts. There only safeguard to doubts is picking someone you are extremely compatible with so there's no doubts in the first place.

[Adam1978]

Looks more you where the one changing your mind not the guy. You accuse him and expect him to fight for you when you dump him. That is the kind of situation where any sane man let the woman go, because she can't handle the situation and will be more trouble then she is worth. She gets what she wants and still complains. Yeah that a woman that deserves to be single.

[Yamahoo]

Uh, you were the one that changed your mind, you said you didn't want him anymore.

[chris_987]

In my experience girls are the ones with mood swings, I’ve never been block by guys

[Anonymous]

Is that so.