[...] of a kind that would interfere with a healthy [friendship].Of course, I find some sexually attractive. I still have a caveman "hubba bubba" instinct if I see one of my attractive female friends on the beach in a swimsuit bending over, and maybe it's a little more exciting than a complete stranger given that she's my friend. But it's just like a primitive thing. It's not enough to make me desire her in some strong way that will make me start crushing on her or getting jealous if she dates other guys or whatnot. I'm happy when she dates another guy and I wanna meet him and we can all hang out and have fun.
But in my rude opinion, it's like I keep hearing from guys that he's gonna sexually desire an attractive one in a way that messes things up. I think that's kind of desperation if he's not pickier than just a girl he finds sexually attractive that he can have fun with as just a friend. If you imagine like a young Brad Pitt, he probably wouldn't have any difficulty having plenty of attractive female friends and he's probably going to be much pickier than that about who he dates and goes after. Not saying I was anywhere close to Brad Pitt in popularity among girls, but that's an extreme example... but I was at least enough to get girls approaching me regularly and giving me their number. I had options.
There have also been cases where the sexual attraction was very mutual but it's like I don't wanna go for it. For example, I have this friend who's very attractive and she's very funny and so fun as a friend since she's a professional comedian, and we've gotten frisky at times, but she tends to sleep with a new guy every week or two and dump him... like her "boy toys". I didn't wanna become one of her boy toys. I'm good with her just as a friend. She's an awesome friend in my opinion but probably horrid date.
In my case as well, I'd separate "sexual attraction" from "sexual desire". For example, a pornstar who gangbangs guys on a regular basis can trigger "sexual attraction". A primitive side of me will wanna sleep with her. But I don't actually want to sleep with a pornstar. Does that make sense? It doesn't seem to make sense to a lot of guys on here asking which pornstar you want to sleep with. I don't want to actually sleep with any pornstar even if I find some of those pictures enticing. It's like a great chef might be able to serve human eyeballs and season it so nice that it smells awesome to my nose and a part of me wants to eat it, but I don't *actually* want to eat human eyeballs. My nose is tricking me here.
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I don't know I've had a guy be a really good friend to me but not be interested in me at all. He even told me he isn't seeking a relationship at all anytime soon and he's never been in one by choice.I also have other male friends who aren't as close but still I believe 100% that they're not attracted to me and I'm not attracted to them.
The only way you would know would be to genuinely be interested in having sex with them and make the move SOBER (not fake it because we always know when it's fake attention seeking shit and we will say "stop playing around" card.)