Behaviour of your boyfriend in public-your take?

mne25
I have an argument with my boyfriend about this. I get mad almost each time we spend time with someone around. Its very little things, not like disasterous events but it adds up to me being very annoyed. I am not someone who is obsessed with others opinion, but Im not careless either, so when it comes to a boyfriend I want people to either think nothing or something positive about our relationship, because if someone judged us negative in a sence that he's not good for me at all it makes me feel very anxious and as if theyre judging my whole life. He doesn't purposfuly disrespect me infront of others but he will carres my butt even tho there's someone there which I feel is disrespectful or he will joke in a mean way, which could be an internal joke that I love and understand when were alone but I dont want aquantances thinking:"Why is she such a loser, accepting this?"He says he understands but he also told me I obviously strongly need validation from the way others see my relationship. He also said"I dont blame you" which I don't know what meant. Now I don't know he might be right I may be too insecure but still I think he could take more care? Maybe I rely on others for validation, maybe Im a narcissist, but not only would I like absence of even slightly cringy behaviours of my boyfriend, I would actualy love for my man to let the world know he loves me, sometimes I fanthsize about a guy publicly ordering a song for me or saying something heartwarming in front of others I don't know... am I a narcissist that needs a therapist or I just need a better guy? 👀
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