Are guys turned off by dirty humor?

Question

I was talking with a group of guy friends. I like one of them a lot. He’s the most quiet and reserved guy ever. While we were talking, a guy randomly sent me a dick pic. I told everyone about it and we laughed and joked about it. I said I was glad I wasn’t alone when it happened because I would rather just laugh about it. My friends and I kept making dirty jokes and they were telling weird stories. He seems so innocent relative to me and I usually don’t bring this type of stuff up around him. My other guy friends are always making weird jokes like this and he’s never seen me with them before. The guy that I like kept pretty quiet the whole time, but he’s always quiet. Is it a turn off to see a girl who you like joking like this with other guys?

Answer 1

SenseiSeptred | 80 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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If I were you I would suggest maybe watch out because he is probably snickering very deep inside of himself so much that either A. He is going to say a phrase that is going to totally blow away everyone in the room with something that he says that might be the biggest shock to them but most importantly you that there may never be any going back from that point on, or B. He is going to prank you so badly that there is no going back even more so than point A above? I'm saying that because that is something that I would do towards any potential person that I would ever call a girlfriend and eventually be called the wife. Lol

SenseiSeptred

7 mo
Thank you for the MHO.

Answer 2

SenseiSeptred

Thank you for the MHO.

Answer 3

Bananaman177 | 672 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Well, imagine how it would feel if you all made fun of the dick by saying it's small and pathetic and he looked at it and saw that it's the same size (or bigger) than his.

Answer 4

TinyLisa

Xper 4

What's the difference between a pickpocket and a peeping tom?

One snatches your watch. The other watches your snatch.

Answer 5

Secret6620 | 2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

I certainly hope not... That's usually the only thing I bring to a conversation... I need a filter on this mouth...🎀🙊

Answer 6

NineBreaker

Yoda

Yes, they can be. It is cringe-inducing for me. Don't care if you're male or female: I don't like the work of comedians who completely rely on that kind of humor. I think people have the right to make these jokes. I'm under no obligation to like said jokes.

Answer 7

Jayden_Tan

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it's just the guy personally. I won't be offended by any sexual jokes if we are talking in a group. but I will be uncomfortable if a girl suddenly send me sexual jokes via a text for example. it doesn't matter how long we know each other. i feel it's inappropriate. in a group, it's fine

Answer 8

wellhack

Xper 3

I agree with willisg and also just cause he's quiet doesn't mean he won't answer questions I'm like that although in that situation is joke but usually I'm pretty reserved I like to observe everything going on around me I could sit in a room with someone and not say one word but the second they talk to me I'm more than willing to talk back (unless I have my headphones on and listening to music)

Answer 9

Aakash_Hangargi | 239 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

May be he likes you, but can't relate to the jokes and you being so funny with sexual jokes with other guys makes him jealous if you do it with him only he will appreciate it and laugh

Answer 10

Interstate | 64 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 5

Lol hell know. I find a way to "that's what she said" every chance I get ;)

Answer 11

Anonymous

Tbf i like dirty and offensive humour but its not everyones cup of tea, he might have just been uncomfortable or just didn't find it funny

Answer 12

gruvman

Xper 3

Depends on the guy. Most outgoing guys with a lot of friends will be okay and some like it. But some, you know, mama boy will think you're naughty 🤣

Answer 13

ZicoLad9696

Xper 2

Be you lovely and let someone find you that loves you... dirty humour an all... i love a funny woman cos you dont meet many.. and if she couldnt swear. loke a trooper i wouldn't trust her

Answer 14

Jones_T

Xper 5

He will start to have feelings for you inside at the moment... As well as I am too

Answer 15

Chill_Meta

Xper 4

Depends on who's telling the joke and how you deliver the punchline

Answer 16

Grkgod12

Xper 6

It really depends on the people involved.
I think its cool to be open, honest, and funny about sexual things
How about you?

Answer 17

silasw

Xper 4

Maybe talk to him. Find out what he thinks is funny. Could just be that a dick pic isn't funny.

Asker

7 mo
They’re not... lol but it made me feel better to have them joke about it. Would it be very unattractive to you?
silasw

7 mo
Not really since most girls get dick pics dumped on them daily. I can only guess here, since I dont know the guy. Maybe he just didn't feel the need to or want to respond/join in.
silasw

7 mo
It sounds as though you are feeling some way about receiving a dick pic in the presence of the guy you are interested in. Based on the context I can see how it can be interpreted in a negative way. Do you think you handled the situation poorly because he didn't react?
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Asker

7 mo
While his silence did make feel really anxious once he left, it’s more of the dynamic. He’s extremely innocent relative to me. When we first started hanging out I asked if he liked me, and he said he thinks I’m cute but doesn’t want a relationship with me. Since then we’ve been holding hands every time we watch a movie together. So I think he is extremely reserved. I try not to talk about anything too raunchy with him because I know that he just won’t have anything to say about it. I don’t know how he feels about sex. He didn’t say anything throughout the entire conversation with my friends, which is very usual for him. In my experience you have to directly ask him a question for him to speak up But this is a guy I really like and I want to warm up to me. So it’s not his silence that bothered me, it’s that I don’t want to scare him away or look classless. Does that make sense?
silasw

7 mo
Yea that makes sense. If he's holding your hand while watching movies dont you think that's a sign of him liking you? Also, just be you for real. If you are raunchy then be that. Itll come out in the relationship anyways dont tailor your personality to meet the expectations of someone else. Be genuine. If youa re being raunchy just to fit in then stop doing that. If y'all are friends and comfortable with each other then just ask him how he feels.
silasw

7 mo
Thinking on it. I'd say talk to him. Find out what he likes. Share what you like. Communicate. It's ok to like sex and raunchy stuff and it's ok if he doesn't. there's a whole world of other things to talk about. If you both like each other in a genuine way then you'll both stick around. Maybe ask him why he didn't say anything say how him not saying anything made you anxious. Talk it out with him.

Answer 18

Asker

They’re not... lol but it made me feel better to have them joke about it. Would it be very unattractive to you?

Answer 19

silasw

Not really since most girls get dick pics dumped on them daily. I can only guess here, since I dont know the guy. Maybe he just didn't feel the need to or want to respond/join in.

Answer 20

silasw

It sounds as though you are feeling some way about receiving a dick pic in the presence of the guy you are interested in. Based on the context I can see how it can be interpreted in a negative way. Do you think you handled the situation poorly because he didn't react?

Answer 21

Asker

While his silence did make feel really anxious once he left, it’s more of the dynamic. He’s extremely innocent relative to me. When we first started hanging out I asked if he liked me, and he said he thinks I’m cute but doesn’t want a relationship with me. Since then we’ve been holding hands every time we watch a movie together. So I think he is extremely reserved. I try not to talk about anything too raunchy with him because I know that he just won’t have anything to say about it. I don’t know how he feels about sex. He didn’t say anything throughout the entire conversation with my friends, which is very usual for him. In my experience you have to directly ask him a question for him to speak up But this is a guy I really like and I want to warm up to me. So it’s not his silence that bothered me, it’s that I don’t want to scare him away or look classless. Does that make sense?

Answer 22

silasw

Yea that makes sense. If he's holding your hand while watching movies dont you think that's a sign of him liking you? Also, just be you for real. If you are raunchy then be that. Itll come out in the relationship anyways dont tailor your personality to meet the expectations of someone else. Be genuine. If youa re being raunchy just to fit in then stop doing that. If y'all are friends and comfortable with each other then just ask him how he feels.

Answer 23

silasw

Thinking on it. I'd say talk to him. Find out what he likes. Share what you like. Communicate. It's ok to like sex and raunchy stuff and it's ok if he doesn't. there's a whole world of other things to talk about. If you both like each other in a genuine way then you'll both stick around. Maybe ask him why he didn't say anything say how him not saying anything made you anxious. Talk it out with him.

Answer 24

willisg

Xper 5

You are asking this question because you can't ( read ) him. Quiet guys are hard to read but if you like him ask him. Quiet guys would appreciate one on one communication. They are usually good at focusing on one person.

Answer 25

Anonymous

I think if anything it would make him less inclined to pursue anything with you.

Answer 26

JSmuve | 2.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

No, but it's a turn off to see a girl make fun of another guy.

Answer 27

ThisIsMyOpinion | 450 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

I never heard of a guy getting turned off by dirty jokes.

Answer 28

Numbnuts89

Xper 7

no such thing as "guy friends"

Hence, why you like one of them

Answer 29

Richard-Tilburg

Xper 5

You should ask him instead of us. 😇

Answer 30

Walrus_au | 492 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Not for me. But maybe for some.

Answer 31

NortyRich | 125 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 6

Oh wow u sound like my kind of thing

Answer 32

Stonernights

Xper 5

Some are. Some aren't.

Answer 33

Iamanintrovert | 149 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 6

Why do you need to turn him up anyway?

Answer 34

QueenOfBaku

Xper 6

If I was him I'd be turned off

Answer 35

es20490446e | 2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

I am.

Answer 36

coffeewithcream | 275 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Explorer

Total turn off.

Answer 37

In_Trance | 2.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Nope not at all

Answer 38

heavyjordy

Xper 2

I love dirty and dark jokes personally!

Answer 39

Robbam55

Xper 6

I’m not

Answer 40

MeatPuppet | 180 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

Personally, I'm not.

Answer 41

AK2Time

Xper 1

No
It's hot

Answer 42

navyP | 78 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

No not at all

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