Can a man fall in love within 5 days?

Question

I have been speaking to this guy for 5 days and he has just says ‘i love you’ my reply was ‘lmao don’t take the piss’. I just think it’s far too early for him to say? So not sure if he’s being serious or. Why would he say it? I’m confused and can anyone help lol

Updates:

7 mo

Well this is an update apparently he was joking but why would someone say it in the first place

Answer 1

Clickmore

Xper 1

The answer depends on how romantic he/you are. People bieleve in love at first sight because they can fall in love at first sight. People don't because they dont. So the answer is yes and he could mean it I'd he is a hopeless romantic. And the answer is no if he is a cad trying to get laid.

Angel786

7 mo
This is just over messaging eachother and FaceTime. I told him I don’t give my self away like that because I don’t like doing intimate stuff with just anyone
Clickmore

7 mo
Human interaction can illicit emotion. You should be able to recall just reading a text that made you emote physically (laugh, cry, yell, get mad, feel happy, ECT). If you don't get the sense he is a hopeless romantic e. g. he asks to see your tits, that is just not a thing romantics do. If he is not the type then he is not in love.
Angel786

7 mo
Nope he never asks to see my tits I have told him I never send nudes out lol

Answer 2

Angel786

This is just over messaging eachother and FaceTime. I told him I don’t give my self away like that because I don’t like doing intimate stuff with just anyone

Answer 3

Clickmore

Human interaction can illicit emotion. You should be able to recall just reading a text that made you emote physically (laugh, cry, yell, get mad, feel happy, ECT). If you don't get the sense he is a hopeless romantic e. g. he asks to see your tits, that is just not a thing romantics do. If he is not the type then he is not in love.

Answer 4

Angel786

Nope he never asks to see my tits I have told him I never send nudes out lol

Answer 5

willisg

Xper 5

Talk is cheap too.
Any way," in love" is different than " love". Follow your intuition. You are think right.
You do have love in first sight. You can fall " in love" in a moment but now you have to work to prove it.

Angel786

7 mo
Yeah I agree I said to him actions speak louder than words
willisg

7 mo
You are very wise. I feel you are no joke either. Either mature him up or he will learn.
Angel786

7 mo
Thank you I just sent him this message ‘ I’m going to be honest with you I ain’t really looking for a fuck about looking for something serious. What you looking for? (Just telling you my intentions )’ he said ‘so am I you know ‘ but I know he didn’t mean the I love you part he wanted to see my reaction lol but I ain’t being fed bullshit that’s why I said to him about my intentions
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willisg

7 mo
People test people, then when they get a reaction that they don't like, back out saying, " I was just joking". People play like that. If you would of played along with him he would of been all into it. You gave him true colors which he had to back out from.
I don't know what triggered him to play like that when he didn't know you. I am a guy and that shit turns me off because I am about knowing someone from the inside out.
You almost have to these days because people can get strange on you real quick.
Angel786

7 mo
Yeh exactly he’s still acting alright just going to play it out and see how it goes. But I 100% will never give my self away like that. I respect people who do sexual stuff with others but it just doesn’t feel right with me doing with someone without getting to know them on a deeper level
willisg

7 mo
Proud of you
Angel786

7 mo
Awww thank you 😊

Answer 6

Angel786

Yeah I agree I said to him actions speak louder than words

Answer 7

willisg

You are very wise. I feel you are no joke either. Either mature him up or he will learn.

Answer 8

Angel786

Thank you I just sent him this message ‘ I’m going to be honest with you I ain’t really looking for a fuck about looking for something serious. What you looking for? (Just telling you my intentions )’ he said ‘so am I you know ‘ but I know he didn’t mean the I love you part he wanted to see my reaction lol but I ain’t being fed bullshit that’s why I said to him about my intentions

Answer 9

willisg

People test people, then when they get a reaction that they don't like, back out saying, " I was just joking". People play like that. If you would of played along with him he would of been all into it. You gave him true colors which he had to back out from.
I don't know what triggered him to play like that when he didn't know you. I am a guy and that shit turns me off because I am about knowing someone from the inside out.
You almost have to these days because people can get strange on you real quick.

Answer 10

Angel786

Yeh exactly he’s still acting alright just going to play it out and see how it goes. But I 100% will never give my self away like that. I respect people who do sexual stuff with others but it just doesn’t feel right with me doing with someone without getting to know them on a deeper level

Answer 11

willisg

Proud of you

Answer 12

Angel786

Awww thank you 😊

Answer 13

Nicolette777

Xper 6

Yes- love has no timeframe. Highly unlikely though. However, love is a concept made by humans. It means something different to everyone. He may believe he’s in love even if he isn’t. Doesn’t make it any less valid

Angel786

7 mo
Ahh thank you for explaining x

Answer 14

Angel786

Ahh thank you for explaining x

Answer 15

IU_092

Xper 6

Im in a similar situation. I have no idea. Maybe he just really does like u. Give ur friendship time to bloom first.

Angel786

7 mo
Yeah girl! That’s what I’m definitely doing. I also told him actions speak louder than words
zeemanlyman

7 mo
any person who's still doesn't understand their own emotional reactions and development, can fall in love from one moment to the next lol
IU_092

7 mo
@zeemanlyman
Are you stalking me?
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zeemanlyman

7 mo
@IU_092 oh look it's you again we gotta stop meeting like this lol or i might think you're stalking me lol jk jk i just really liked your posts and comments 😸
IU_092

7 mo
@zeemanlyman
😆😆 well thats very flattering... in a way..😂

Answer 16

Angel786

Yeah girl! That’s what I’m definitely doing. I also told him actions speak louder than words

Answer 17

zeemanlyman

any person who's still doesn't understand their own emotional reactions and development, can fall in love from one moment to the next lol

Answer 18

IU_092

@zeemanlyman
Are you stalking me?

Answer 19

zeemanlyman

@IU_092 oh look it's you again we gotta stop meeting like this lol or i might think you're stalking me lol jk jk i just really liked your posts and comments 😸

Answer 20

IU_092

@zeemanlyman
😆😆 well thats very flattering... in a way..😂

Answer 21

MrCommodore | 512 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

I don't think so, not genuinely fall in love. Tbh it would take me many months to realise I have a crush on a girl, I think love takes much linger.

Angel786

7 mo
Yeah I agree I said to him actions speak louder than words

Answer 22

Angel786

Yeah I agree I said to him actions speak louder than words

Answer 23

NatalieKeller95

Xper 7

love usually happens or doesn't happen between 2 to 4 months, in some relationships it can be even more it all depends on the person and when they're willing to confess or receive

Answer 24

Gedaria | 1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

It is possible. If you start out with strong feeling it doesn't take much to love...

Answer 25

Somedude836

Xper 1

I'm an open book and a gentle soul and I love easily. Mostly because I'm broken inside but I'm very caring and I stick to my word. That's just me tho

Angel786

7 mo
Thank you and hope you find the love you deserve ❤️

Answer 26

Angel786

Thank you and hope you find the love you deserve ❤️

Answer 27

ecfresh | 2.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

No, not in five days.

Angel786

7 mo
Exactly what I am thinking we have been speaking nearly most of the days.
ecfresh

7 mo
He doesn’t love you.

Answer 28

Angel786

Exactly what I am thinking we have been speaking nearly most of the days.

Answer 29

ecfresh

He doesn’t love you.

Answer 30

Swordnen

Xper 5

My first love
I fell in love in just 3 seconds

Answer 31

Blubby1234

Xper 6

Too soon

Blubby1234

7 mo
Wait he said this in person?
Angel786

7 mo
No not In person over message? We have been chatting most of the days
Angel786

7 mo
Within the 5 days we have been speaking
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Blubby1234

7 mo
Only talking on text? Yikes