Why would a nice guy do this?

Question

i was studying abroad when i met him, everything was so good, he's a good guy he was caring and calling me everyday, he was planing for our dates with details, one night he called me and confessed he loves me truly and that he made me promise that we will fight to stay together, after that we had a date on Sunday and i went to party with my friends Saturday night, and i called him to let him know, he was so mad and started to yell i couldn't understand what he was saying because he was speaking his mother language, after that i figured it out i tried to explain, he started to ignore me, he called later to say that he's angry with me and that he's not an open minded person, after that things gone worst and he broke up with me with a msj,
we met after 2 months, i was leaving definitely and i asked him to met for the last time, he was incredibly kind and nervous, i brought him a gift with a farewell letter, and he was so touched by it that he to reach my eyes while i was looking down, then he went to stand by the window for a while and i couldn't stand the situation when my tears started to fall i left and then he ran after me and tried to stop me by hugging me while i pushed him away, he hugged me and asked for a last kiss, i couldn't say no, then he kissed my upper lip and stopped suddenly and ran while looking at me
after i went back to my country, he started to unregister and register in his account, several time... and in a week he put a picture with another girl but not sure if it was him in the pic !! and he disappeared for good
i don't understand till now... it's been 7 years now I really moved on and i have a great man by my side now, however i'm curious because i never understood all this !! i felt his love, jealousy, care... but the way he hurt me till the last day was so bad !! and i want to understand

Answer 1

Aakash_Hangargi | 239 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Some love stories better incomplete cherish good memories, now you have moved on no point in looking back he have to leave the baggage here itself think somethings are meant to be how it's meant to be not everything has a logical reasoning dont look back now

sarahdamien

7 mo
i really moved on and it's been 7 years !! however, sometimes i dream of him and i think this is due to the left over !! it's just like a time machine that take me to 7 years before and i want to put my old soul to rest !!
Aakash_Hangargi

7 mo
That can be only done my thinking his off, and accepting it as it is there is nothing really to it anymore think his happy somehow somewhere and release his memories, I know may be he was your first that's why it's hard you can really never forget first ones but carry on, I would say even if you cry for him nothing wrong everybody teaches us something in life but if you do that see how it affects your current life for the ghost of past life
Aakash_Hangargi

7 mo
What was his mother language by the way
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sarahdamien

7 mo
he's korean
sarahdamien

7 mo
no i don't cry, actually i had 2 years of depression and crying like a fool and after that i really buried him so deep that i barely recall his face now
and i love my current Man so much
but this ex has a special place in my heart... and some times like those days i dreamed of him.. and i hope he's ok during this pandemic.

thank you sir for your nice words and listening skill... it helped
Aakash_Hangargi

7 mo
It's ok we can't really forget such attraction in love but need to carry on with life he will be ok donot worry take care of your present it's called past for reason let him be there thank you

Answer 2

sarahdamien

i really moved on and it's been 7 years !! however, sometimes i dream of him and i think this is due to the left over !! it's just like a time machine that take me to 7 years before and i want to put my old soul to rest !!

Answer 3

Aakash_Hangargi

That can be only done my thinking his off, and accepting it as it is there is nothing really to it anymore think his happy somehow somewhere and release his memories, I know may be he was your first that's why it's hard you can really never forget first ones but carry on, I would say even if you cry for him nothing wrong everybody teaches us something in life but if you do that see how it affects your current life for the ghost of past life

Answer 4

Aakash_Hangargi

What was his mother language by the way

Answer 5

sarahdamien

he's korean

Answer 6

sarahdamien

no i don't cry, actually i had 2 years of depression and crying like a fool and after that i really buried him so deep that i barely recall his face now
and i love my current Man so much
but this ex has a special place in my heart... and some times like those days i dreamed of him.. and i hope he's ok during this pandemic.

thank you sir for your nice words and listening skill... it helped

Answer 7

Aakash_Hangargi

It's ok we can't really forget such attraction in love but need to carry on with life he will be ok donot worry take care of your present it's called past for reason let him be there thank you

Answer 8

MASTER_T

Xper 1

He was a child... That still want to own everything for himself and his satisfaction only, whatever the other partner like that (to be owned) or not.
I am sorry for this bad experience... But it was for your benifet... He was a non grown up guy.

sarahdamien

7 mo
yeah maybe, we were 23 years old both of us
even though he was a hardworking guy, not a playboy
i didn't regret that experience !! i cherich every moment i spent with him... after all i had the best time of my life with him. thank you for your sincere answer
MASTER_T

7 mo
You are welcome... I hope you aren't offended by my answer.. it is just my interpretation of what you mentioned in ur question.

Answer 9

sarahdamien

yeah maybe, we were 23 years old both of us
even though he was a hardworking guy, not a playboy
i didn't regret that experience !! i cherich every moment i spent with him... after all i had the best time of my life with him. thank you for your sincere answer

Answer 10

MASTER_T

You are welcome... I hope you aren't offended by my answer.. it is just my interpretation of what you mentioned in ur question.

Answer 11

Iron_Man | 6.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

He has the mind of a child not mature at all a flake at that

Answer 12

MannMitAntworten | 1.3K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

You may never know/understand the why. Many of us will never understand, “why?”

Answer 13

farhaan7part2

Xper 5

😂😂😂😂😂😂

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