i don't get the nervous part? Do you mean that if a guy has any intentions with a girl, he will be little nervous? And is the intentions a positive or negative ones?
Positive. If his intentions are negative he will not be nervous at all.
what does the nervousness indicate?
That they want you to like them.
what can the girl do to help in the situation?
You can try to start approaching them yourself.
how about smiling at him? Would it be better? what effects would it have?
That cold also work, yes. He might see it as an invitation to approach you.
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awww someone doesn't like my opinion, but, prove me wrong.
As much as i hate to say this but you're kinda right.. Like if she just starts laughing more and hugging every guy she sees she'll have a friendzone list and guys in love with me list like if she does what you're saying she'll have triple the chances
@jaybee281 Thank you for not taking the political-road on this!
Why would he be nervous? And also how can I not make him nervous?
I would have to know him. Maybe he's a nervous guy that's had a lot of rejection. I'm that guy. Or maybe he just feels like she's out of his league even though he's got a healthy self esteem. Like i said the best think you can do is provide a relaxed atmosphere. Don't expect him to carry the conversation. Don't make him do anymore of a dance for you than he has to. Some women get awkward when a guy is nervous and that only adds to the guys anxiety. Like i say just make it easier for him to talk to you smile and laugh at his jokes or funny stories. If he sees that things are going well (you're not running away lol) he should eventually relax.
how about smiling at you? which is better?
Smiling definitely helps too but I think conversation speaks louder than the smile as anyone can fake it.
Pro tip: more than likely they aren't intimidated by you, they just aren't interested.
Lol. Gosh I hope not