Oh, another theory: Could be the places you meet them. Probably a lot of guys you meet at clubs will be players, for example.
So normal guys can’t be handsome, confident and extroverted? Based on what you’re saying normal guys are ugly, shy and afraid of everything...
That's not what I said, no. I was talking about what qualities you might be prioritizing, not saying guys can't have some of those qualities. If you prioritize things like sweetness and attentiveness, for example, you might get fewer players. And someone who's sweet and attentive can also happen to be handsome. Also, I was talking about this specific combination of qualities (not just one or two). Someone who's not handsome also doesn't have to be ugly (someone can just be average for example), someone who's not particularly confident doesn't have to be afraid of everything, they can just be somewhat confident and somewhat insecure at different times. No need to paint this in extremes. And finally the fact is the more of these qualities someone has, the more likely they are to be a player. Because that's the type of guy that often becomes a player. On the flipside, you're not going to find many shy players.
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I disagree. You can't have hard-and-fast rules like that. I'm under 30, I've only ever been interested in serious relationships. Not all guys are the same.
nah she just bad taste and keeps going to the same guys. she has to find a guy that will worry and care for her like I do with my girlfriend I treat her with respect and support her all the way
@Aces404 most young men are like this. as I get older and I found older men. they are nicer. what I mean is that they are more mature and done with stupid
nah ever since a young age I didn't find it nasty i just went "oh i have buy chocolate and let her vibe" so not all young ones just most of them
sorry I repeated you sorry
shit I replied to the wrong question lmao
but eh I'm kinda old but I'm still a friend with stupid most of the time
@Aces404 20 isn't old yet. most men in 20s are still immature no matter how nice they are. I have met someone like this when I was 20. and he was 20. I thought he would be a good man. in fact after a few years next, he was not really good one. so now I prefer older men. ♥️
I'm a young guy, I've only ever been interested in serious relationships.
@Goma15 26 is pretty old lol
oof @Goma15 RIP and eh it's kinda old and 20 its eh kinda old for me
@Aces404 I'm not going to talk to young boy
miss with all do respect I'm mature enough to make it through this hell we call earth ok? and we all are either by hiding from truth or by facing life head on so its rude to say that even tho I may be young doesn't mean I dont know struggle or hardship so please dont try and mock anyone you dont know and maybe you weren't I can't tell so sorry if I seemed heated I just hate when people treat me like a kid
If you're not very intelligent, yeah. Believe me, when you get there you'll notice it's really not. Besides it doesn't matter. I've been this way since I was 17. So your argument falls flat.
Also, I like how apparently 26 is too old but 20 is a young boy... you really need to be a bit more consistent. Just realize maybe, just maybe you're buying into a silly stereotype with this "because they're young "bullshit. All you've got is your anecdotal experience and you've got two guys proving ot you that it's wrong.
My point being, being too young is not an excuse. You've got young guys who are players and they make that choice, and you've got young guys who are not (like me and Aces) and never were. And not I've known many other guys who were friends who also were not. You've got older guys who are players, you've got older guys who are not. Maybe your conclusion comes either from buying into a baseless stereotype or because you also pick out the "players" without knowing it. Might wanna think about that. I'm out.
@Goma15 damn you popped off bro and yea just because theyre young doesn't mean that they aren't mature they can be playing and act childish yes but then again we young people get serious about certain things like me if you touch or put someone down I won't care if your a woman or a man I'll correct you if you're a kid I'll be gentle if your old enough to know better I'll be harsh it's just some and can't really understand the drawbacks of love its blinds us so it's up to them to make sure they dont get blinded like most it's a scary but heart warming thing we just need to know which love is meant for us which is hard and I've been like this since I was 14 I don't know why but it's just right to teach others about to accept others boundaries
@Aces404 Well you know, I'll admit to beeing somewhat annoyed at being called old just because I'm 26. Plus, I admit that I really hate people buying into stereotypes it rubs me the wrong way. Yeah, I think you're right that it's important to teach other people to look passed their biases. And yes, finding love is a harsh, long and arduous process.
@Goma15 bro you're old you're wise and you're not old until you get excited over a vacuum cleaner and yea stereotypes just ain't right like I look and sound like I'm from the hood right? but I still treat everyone the same and with respect as long as they respect me and my family and besides that im just a chill guy when you first come up to me and when you get to know me and still you're not old you just know a lot more than others while old people are more... riddle talkers like my pops he goes "I won't teach you you teach yourself* and I live by that
*not old! sorry @Goma15
@Aces404 Well, my vaccuuum cleaner iiis very nice. I'm kidding. =pBut yeah, I agree. Treat people like fellow human beings with their own complexities, don't rely on stereotypes. And definitely don't rely on stereotypes to excuse shitty behaviour, I would say.I get it "old and wise" is just kind of an idiom. So no worries, I get what you meant. >.<
@Goma15 still sorry about that and yea I know whatcha mean people stay away from me cause of my outside character but never see me but its eh it's better to have the people who can see you than the ones who can't
@Aces404 No need, mate. And yeah, that's pretty shitty of people.
@Goma15 still you not old until you say you are like even elders can beat young ones in physical activities which is sick af and yea my vacuum is pretty good also