My boyfriend stopped caring about himself and it bothers me?

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On the 11th of May we will have been together for four years. The problem is he doesn't take care of himself anymore. He's worked out once in the last year, I don't expect him to have a perfect body but I do expect him to somewhat care about his health. Over the last few weeks he started drinking more, about a bottle of wine to himself every other night and he thinks it's okay because it's not every night 🙄. He doesn't cleanse or look after his skin either. When we first met he looked after himself, had a six pack, played sports etc. I don't need him to be in that shape again although it would be nice, but I really just want him to look after himself for his own sake. As I look after myself I expect the same from him. But when I mention any of this he gets upset. Physically he's neglecting himself, but financially he started a business that seems to be growing nicely, even in these strange covid-19 times. I thought maybe after all this covid-19 I'd suggest we play tennis once a week as he used to play at county level before. I really don't know what to do here.
My boyfriend stopped caring about himself and it bothers me?
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