i mean like didn't you end up falling for other girls throughout the years?
Well just like normal boys i also get those minute crushes everyday... But i don't approach anyone unless i feel like i love them that much... You are right in between those years, the time when we stopped talking i had tried on another girl just because she was pretty cute and also i wanted to get over this long term crush... Well i managed to move on for a bit... But then that girl rejected me and the long term crush appologized to me and then we got into talking... Then when i confessed i got rejected, she had a boyfriend. We still talk tho... I can't help myself in avoiding her because she is probably 1 of those i have completely opened up to... Also i love her so much it just hurts me that i can't really have what i have been fighting for, with myself.
Tbh honest i still everyday try to talk through things with her...😂 She kinda praises how open my emotions are... And i am like "bitch 7 years ain't a joke!"🤣
if the shy guy tends to surround himself near the girl but doesn't talk to her, sometimes avoided eye contact, gets nervous, dropped things around her at the start but due. to some situations, they both haven't seen each other for months. How long would you think it takes for the guy to lose the feelings due to the lack of seeing each other?
“ if the shy guy tends to surround himself near the girl but doesn't talk to her, sometimes avoided eye contact, gets nervous, dropped things around her at the start but due. to some situations, they both haven't seen each other for months.”Yes a typical shy guy, a genuine shy guy will display these signs only. Exactly.
“ How long would you think it takes for the guy to lose the feelings due to the lack of seeing each other?”It doesn’t matter, lack of seeing each other will never matter and won’t be a factor for a shy guy to lose his feelings for that woman.A shy guy will only lose his feelings only under certain situations.Hence even if the shy guy doesn’t see a woman for a year or has never spoken to her, his feelings for here will still be the same.
i mean like won't he eventually fall for other girls?
“ i mean like won't he eventually fall for other girls?”Yes I understand that but my answer is still NO. Unless the first woman did something bad or he finds something wrong or unappealing about the woman he has a crush on, a shy won’t really move on. He will never start liking other girls. That is simply not the case with genuinely shy guys.That is also the difference between a shy guy and a normal guy who is confident, take charge and of assertive type.
its hard to believe though cause i know guys easily fall for girls that they encounter esp when they are good looking
It may be hard for you to believe but that is a fact. Every man is not the same. Every man will not crazy about having a woman in his life.There are men who will wait for years for the right woman and give importance to quality rather than just jumping from one woman to another.
Request you not to generalize men in that regard
its just hard to believe that a shy guy would still have feeling for his crush after not seeing her for months & months, including not contacting through any social media or messaging
Believe it. That is true.
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what cause it to be too long?
Strong feelings will last
how long has it been? Didn't you end up falling for other girls throughout?
Do you think this guy you're thinking of has had any contact with other girls?
honestly i'm not sure since i haven't talked or seen him for months...
So you don't know him that well? I'm guessing he doesn't use conventional forms of social media, hence why you haven't contacted him through that? He seems like a mysterious guy