Is this a sign of a controlling boyfriend?

Anonymous
So this is my first “real” relationship, and we’ve been together for a little over 3 months. He has acted “jokingly” (is what he would say) controlling towards me twice, the first time I didn’t want to do something he had told me too and he had a little outburst like saying that I had to do it, but then immediately asked for forgiveness saying it was a joke. The second time, he kept saying that I must do what he says, and then would be like “nah I’m just kidding,” and he is always asking if I already ate, and wanting to know if I got home safely. All I want to know is if those could be red flags, or am I just being paranoid? Please help
Is this a sign of a controlling boyfriend?
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