Why do men sometimes interpret my advances as sexual when I just want to be friends?

Anonymous
This has happened before. I play the drums and I went into a music store a few times and I had a guy who worked there help me, and I basically loved the guy by the end of our time talking (5 times talking?), but in a purely platonic way. Like, I felt like I loved the guy like a brother, he was so honest and kind. Anyway, I wanted to hang out with him and we got drinks and it became obvious that he was interested sexually. Disappointing.
This has happened a few times. If it helps, I'm a small, pretty little white girl/woman.
Why do men sometimes interpret my advances as sexual when I just want to be friends?
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