Okay that’s probably somewhat of a dumb question. So the guy I’m talking to really liked me when I was overweight and not so attractive. I really didn’t have style. I wasn’t ugly but I lost a ton of weight. My looks have improved. I got my hair done. I’ve just really been stepping my game up. But it seems like the more I improve myself the more he pulls away. Everyone around me tells me how amazing I look. And he never says anything. I know he’s insecure. I made a comment once about him never saying anything nice to me. He was like you are pretty... why do I need to tell you? It’s just weird. I don't know. I just don’t understand why he’s acting weird.