Well obviously biologically all men aren’t looking for someone to have their children, as gay men exist, and many straight men don’t want kids, or can’t have them.
Asker, That is why I left the "almost all men". Men being attracted to men is not normal biologically. It's a life choice. There is plenty of evidence that Gay couples want to adopt children or seek out a female to carry their child. Choosing to be Gay or Lesbian is an emotional choice. It's not a natural choice. It's all about a "comfort level" with another person. I'm sure there is evidence that men who chose to be Gay and are very comfortable with the fact that they will not father any children. I don't believe that choice is as emotionally devastating to men as it would be for most women.Straight men who don't want children is a totally different thing. Men who don't show a desire for children are not usually happy with the relationship they are in and don't feel secure with having children with that person. My first wife wanted children. I was only 23 and not emotionally or financially ready to start a family. She filed for divorce after a year and a half of marriage. Using this as her reason. Best decision I ever made was to not have children that soon. The irony of this was learned 4 years later. My first wife was Manic/depressive. When I learned this from her, it explained a lot of her behavior during the marriage (which I won't get into). She also could not have children which would have turned into an emotional nightmare for both of us. Sometime you have to trust your gut. When something in your head tells you it's not right. You need to trust your intuition.
No, not really. I wouldn't go there until I figure out what women want. Often they don't even know what they want.
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I gotta disagree with you there. The word is "attraction". Meaning you are drawn to the person. You find that you want to be closer to that person. You are "attracted" to that person. Men compete with other men. We don't usually want to be near other men.