So I have a boyfriend of almost 3 months. I have to tell him to shower sometimes because he stinks. I don’t want to be mean to him I’m just not that kind of person. Whenever we go out or hangout or whenever he wears shirts with holes and just doesn’t act like he cares about his appearance. He went to my graduation in his same work clothes and didn’t even take a shower. Also the other day he commented on me about how I only wear like 3 outfits ever but yet he wears like 1 or 2 things the whole time we have been together. Am I overthinking this stuff or would it bother you guys too?